If you want to deal with them then go right ahead.
That raped victim has more value to me than the likes of you who are on earth wasting food and dear resources.
If you want to deal with them then go right ahead.
keep crying ya donkeyThat raped victim has more value to me than the likes of you who are on earth wasting food and dear resources.
keep crying ya donkey
You're assuming this is something that one can't heal from which is incorrect.Lose value? No. But i would not pursue it because they would not be able to function sexually or want to have healthy relations. Marriage would be tough enough without someone having flashbacks every time you touch them
Take a break from the internet & go do something productive. Instead of obsessing over what I find attractive.The only Donkeys here are you and the likes of you leaving their putrid on threads. Get a life dude and find forums the likes of you savages frequent. Nothing but ugliness is your religion.
Are you slow? Nobody in this entire thread said they held her accountable?No one with sound mind would hold a victim like her accountable for anything that happened to her. Personally, if she was attractive, I would make a point in getting married to her to erase her pain and replace it with fond memories.
if there were two women who were just as good as each other in almost every aspect but one was a victim of SA? which one would you choose?You're assuming this is something that one can't heal from which is incorrect.
As for the OP, she definitely wouldn't lose value in my eyes.
Wait a dam minute. What did you mean by last sentence ? are you Muslim/Somali?The only Donkeys here are you and the likes of you leaving their putrid on threads. Get a life dude and find forums the likes of you savages frequent. Nothing but ugliness is your religion.
I'd proceed with the wedding. She was assaulted and it was outside of her control. Hell I'd probably plot revenge on the assaulter to bring closure for my future wife so we can move forward and have a loving family. Why would I blame her for that?I know this seems like a f’ed up question but here me out.
I was scrolling on TT live and found this arab ppl in a convo and it was mainly men and 2 women but the topic came up and one of the man chuckles and says lowkey it would make him feel like a man has already had her and it does make her seem that way even though it’s not her fault.
No judgement I swear but I know a lot of the older generation have those same views, I’m wondering do young somali men feel the same?
If someone from your fiancés side of the family came to you and spilled the tea and said that she’d been assaulted previously and had a whole situation happen when she was a child or a young girl or even an adult, would you still proceed with the wedding or would you cut it off?
You're a good personI rarely make a genuine post but this thread is personal.
My potential wife is an SA victim and I'm the only one who knows about it. It makes her want to avoid all forms of physical touch and it shattered her self-esteem. None of that makes me think of her any less. I still love her and always will
But inshallah we'll go to therapy after nikah.
I'm going to be honest and straight to the point unlike other guys on here for me personally and prob the other guys on here who are too afraid to admit it Yes it does make one lose value EXCEPT if they are someone that you really and genuinely love then there's exceptions but in general yes, they do lose value IM BEING HONEST.
Not in anyway. those who are saying I don't like it for not being her first is a psycho and mentally ill.
The fact this is even a discussion is mindboggling