I would just leave her to it same way she would leave me to it when it comes to providing
Ah okay, you're simply a xaasid individual.
I would just leave her to it same way she would leave me to it when it comes to providing
i wouldnt think she is xaasid if she left me to it in regards to providingAh okay, you're simply a xaasid individual.
house work and keeping the house clean is 24/7 do you think she will get breaks when kids running around and need her attentionOk so the man works all day to provide and comes home and you expect him to help cook and clean? and the wife was sitting at home all day?
If thats your thinking you shouldnt say its the mans duty to provide you should say both should provide and both can take share of cooking and cleaning simple
No wonder there is a hadith of majority of women being in hell fire
in that case she has to work 50-50house work and keeping the house clean is 24/7 do you think she will get breaks when kids running around and need her attention
after work the least you can do is give the wife a helping hand cause marriage is a partnership
i wouldnt think she is xaasid if she left me to it in regards to providing
in that case she has to work 50-50
in that case she has to work 50-50
providing is easier then cooking and cleaning?Providing is one role. Much easier than being a housewife with kids under a certain age.
I work so I know.
Also, the kids are just as much yours as they are hers.
With work you have set hrs and breaks. The same can never be said when it comes to babies. Who cry in the middle of the night.
the dad is away making sure they have a roof over their head and clothed that aint no easy thingAre the kids only hers?
providing is easier then cooking and cleaning?
It aint easy to earn money in this world majority of people work hard to earn money living on rent by rent basis lots of stress involed and for the guy to do it all it aint easy
Most these housewifes have got it easy expecially before kids relaxing at home meeting friends etc
lets say you come home from a 8h shift and the house is messy and kids need food but the wife is sickin that case she has to work 50-50
no being a mother is the hardest job and thats why they get a big reward in islam alhamdulilah no job is harder then a motherI work. I know what it is to work.
I'm not talking about a housewife with no kids or one with older kids.
I'm talking about ones with babies and toddlers.
Clearly you think being a worker is easier than being a mother.
ill just go to my mums house for dinnerlets say you come home from a 8h shift and the house is messy and kids need food but the wife is sick
Are you gonna sit around do nothing?
don't you think thats embarrassing? go to your moms house for dinner Your a grown man you should know how to make dish for you and your familyill just go to my mums house for dinner
inshallah allah dont make that happen wahas wa inkaardon't you think thats embarrassing? go to your moms house for dinner Your a grown man you should know how to make dish for you and your family
inshallah allah dont make that happen wahas wa inkaar
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ill just go to my mums house for dinner
A woman needs to know how to keep a manThis is what I mean when I say you're a xaasid individual authobillah.
If she is ill, who is going to look after her, the kids ect?
You're an enemy living in the same house as her. Horrible person.
A woman needs to know how to keep a man
You know if she's sick since your the husband you should step up tend to your wife and look after the kids until she gets betterinshallah allah dont make that happen wahas wa inkaar
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this is anther thing good about polygamy if one wife gets sick the other wife helps her.... if she wants help just tell her you want anther wife in the family? she wont ask for help ever againYou know if she's sick since your the husband you should step up tend to your wife and look after the kids until she gets better