Its really hard being religious, young, and horny.

[GAHSVSVS]

Wow
Something I’ve always wondered, where do diaspora youth fornciate or date even. I thought they’d be worry about judgement from others. Did you date secretely?

We’d avoid certain areas but mainly because of her. No one was checking for me anyway. Fornication happened in my bedroom, I moved out when I was 16.

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

i know you have dildo in your bedroom.

Bisinka
I didn’t even know what that was, alla uffay

 

[Mr.Haggis]

Please do so. I get anxiety that I'll somehow end up with a guy with a mediocre sex drive.

aabayo kaacsii xuun kahayo, i blame your age. have you tried muslima.com or halfourdeen.com if you need a husband desperately try these websites.

 

[Prince Abubu]

In Victorian England ‘hysterical’ women used to be fingered by doctors to cure their hysterics. Haha funny times. Imagine take your wife to the hospital so another man can finger her.

I just looked this up. You're not joking.

"With the advent of industrialization came the mechanization of massage therapy, the steam powered 'Manipulator’ table massager created in the late 1860s and other devices similar in nature were becoming more available in the mid 19th century.[2]Doctors could now increase their patient load by either investing in a portable vibratory device or having one installed in their office. This new technology also allowed husbands whose wives had been diagnosed with hysteria to partake in the treatments at home. This kind of treatment to induce what is now realized to be an orgasm in women was not considered a sexual act as, with the androcentricmodel for sexuality, it wasn't considered a true sexual act unless there was penetration and ejaculation."

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

We’d avoid certain areas but mainly because of her. No one was checking for me anyway. Fornication happened in my bedroom, I moved out when I was 16.

I’m sorry but I’m rather judgemental
When I think that dhalanyarada do this

 

[GAHSVSVS]

I just looked this up. You're not joking.

"With the advent of industrialization came the mechanization of massage therapy, the steam powered 'Manipulator’ table massager created in the late 1860s and other devices similar in nature were becoming more available in the mid 19th century.[2]Doctors could now increase their patient load by either investing in a portable vibratory device or having one installed in their office. This new technology also allowed husbands whose wives had been diagnosed with hysteria to partake in the treatments at home. This kind of treatment to induce what is now realized to be an orgasm in women was not considered a sexual act as, with the androcentricmodel for sexuality, it wasn't considered a true sexual act unless there was penetration and ejaculation."

My history teacher in upper sixth used to go on impressive tangents and as a result I now know loads of useless things.

 

[Prince Abubu]

That's even worse advice. Masturbating is haram by the majority of scholars. If I was masturbatig I wouldn't be so frustrated to end up making a random post with no specific purpose.

No offense, but if you're that horny (and from the sound of it you are, otherwise why make a whole thread about it?) you have 3 options;

1) Get married
2) Fornicate
3) masterbate

Marriage is serious business and not for getting your rocks off. Fornication is sinful, shameful and can lead to unwanted pregnancies. The best option for you is to flick your bean. Don't bother listening to fat sheikhs who are on their 50th wife. They are not you, nor are do they have your priorities.

 

[GAHSVSVS]

I’m sorry but I’m rather judgemental
When I think that dhalanyarada do this

Don’t apologise, you should be. It’s shameful

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

No offense, but if you're that horny (and from the sound of it you are, otherwise why make a whole thread about it?) you have 3 options;

1) Get married
2) Fornicate
3) masterbate

Marriage is serious business and not for getting your rocks off. Fornication is sinful, shameful and can lead to unwanted pregnancies. The best option for you is to flick your bean. Don't bother listening to fat sheikhs who are on their 50th wife. They are not you, nor are do they have your priorities.

Istaqfurullah do not encourage Masturbation
If something is haraam, I think the control lies within you. Taqwa is needed.

 

[Huncho]

Nayaa I can solve your problem if you agree to be my concubine.My stroke game strong and my pull out game even stronger

 

[MariaMaria]

That's even worse advice. Masturbating is haram by the majority of scholars. If I was masturbatig I wouldn't be so frustrated to end up making a random post with no specific purpose.

ok so hobbies , exercising and focusing on school isn't helping your sexual frustrations. Wallahi there is nothing else but to get married, atleast you'll be doing halal.

There is really more to marriage then sex everyday, I feel like you lust is taking over and you are making important long term decisions because of it. But I guess when you get married you'll realise that reality is different.

I'm just saying , trying to convince your family or a imaam that you want a divorce because your husband won't have sex with you every night is gonna be a struggle/embarrassing

 

[Saeedlfc]

Why is masturbation haram?

 

[Mr.Haggis]

Why is masturbation haram?

Masturbation is disliked not haram. However zina is forbidden

 

[World]

Why do you have your full name as your username?

 

[SumMo]

I'm a girl FWIW. Sex crosses my mind everyday. I can't wait to get married in my last year of college. Sometimes I wish I lived back in the Prophets pbuh time, because then I could have been married whenever and have sex the halal way.

I don't know what I'm looking to gain from posting this. Sexual frustration makes you do odd things. I just want reassurance that their is a Faarax out there who will be willing to do the deed with his wife everyday. Islam doesn't gauruntee that a woman will be taken care of by her spouse no matter what the way it does for men. So, like, what if my husband starts neglecting me after the honeymoon phase? I can't just divorce him so easily. I also can't do polygamy as a woman. I think I would fall into semi depression.

Both the man and the woman has to be sexually pleased in their marriage according to the authentic hadiths! So that is false sis. Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage is a good enough reason for divorce.

 

[GAHSVSVS]

Why do you have your full name as your username?

Don’t think it’s her government tbh. If it is then she’s not very clever after all.

 

[World]

Don’t think it’s her government tbh. If it is then she’s not very clever after all.

Why would someone have a full Somali name as their username, and then talk about a topic like this? People would be easily identify her if that’s true, if not then she’s probably a troll. I mean, what chick studies Computer Science?

 

[SumMo]

You need to be patient. You will find a man who will seek to please you. I understand the struggle, I have been celibate for weeks. My ex girlfriend used to relieve herself without touching herself, she’d just open her legs and wiggle in a circular motion. You could try that. She was like you, very frustrated.

I’m weak

 

[GAHSVSVS]

Why would someone have a full Somali name as their username, and then talk about a topic like this? People would be easily identify her if that’s true, if not then she’s probably a troll. I mean, what chick studies Computer Science?

Found a twitter account belonging to a Somali girl who goes by the same name. She’s into kpop. @Kawsar Mustafa is it yours?

 

[GAHSVSVS]

I’m weak

Do you do it too? It’s wonderful to watch