Its really hard being religious, young, and horny.

credentials? im 17 :draketf:

The hell, step the f*ck down then. Clearly at this age you think your mediocre insights from AP Pyscology are profound and beneficial. The first step in being a knowlegble person is knowing how little you know and that most of the time, it is not your place to advise (without at least disclaiming that you know nothing).
 
I'm a girl FWIW. Sex crosses my mind everyday. I can't wait to get married in my last year of college. Sometimes I wish I lived back in the Prophets pbuh time, because then I could have been married whenever and have sex the halal way.

I don't know what I'm looking to gain from posting this. Sexual frustration makes you do odd things. I just want reassurance that their is a Faarax out there who will be willing to do the deed with his wife everyday. Islam doesn't gauruntee that a woman will be taken care of by her spouse no matter what the way it does for men. So, like, what if my husband starts neglecting me after the honeymoon phase? I can't just divorce him so easily. I also can't do polygamy as a woman. I think I would fall into semi depression.
I'm pretty sure it does, we're told not to pounce on her like an animal during sex and start with foreplay and make sure to fulfill her needs in bed.
I think most men have either a high or normal sex drive with a minority with low drive.
 
I don't think you need to be worrying about physical neglect just yet. I'm guessing you're like 19?

Cliché and corny advice, but seriously, partake in physical exercise. Non-sexual :ufdup:
 
New generation of western halimos are funny crying for the in forums.
There is nothing funny about the situation. I can see a lot of you guys seem to trivialize female sexuality. This is huge double standard in our community, where the young men are sympathized with. But the girls are expected to have null feelings for the opposite gender.
 
I don't think you need to be worrying about physical neglect just yet. I'm guessing you're like 19?

Cliché and corny advice, but seriously, partake in physical exercise. Non-sexual :ufdup:
You guys are not very helpful. I care about school, I have hobbies, and I excercise. I really do (but mostly cardio, not weights). It doesn't help. If anything, it triggers the teeny little testosterone I have in my body, exemplifying my feelings over the long term.

I'm only having some little progress with @buule.
 

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There is nothing funny about the situation. I can see a lot of you guys seem to trivialize female sexuality. This is huge double standard in our community, where the young men are sympathized with. But the girls are expected to have null feelings for the opposite gender.


Well it is the halimos that act like they don't have feelings that is how that stereotype developed.

:manny:
 
Mania.

Manic people tend to be very impulsive, demanding, and aggressive, which often results in spending too much money, drinking too much, sexual promiscuity, and trouble with the law.

In Victorian England ‘hysterical’ women used to be fingered by doctors to cure their hysterics. Haha funny times. Imagine take your wife to the hospital so another man can finger her.
 

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