I got a relative who knocked up his own cousin

[AbrahamFreedom]

@Mercury watch how the clan will blame his wife for going to stay at her mother's house while she was not feeling well. In Somali culture, it is considered extremely shameful to not sleep at home with your husband except for very good reasons like travelling or looking after sick parents. Being sick yourself is not a good reason. I am shocked that she did that in Somalia of all places. Somalis in the west don't even do that. She has opened herself up to criticism. They will say she abandoned her husband. She will be blamed.

 

[KillStreakIsCool]

How

Manners are superior, their self-respect and respect to parents are top notch, their ability to speak fluent Somali grants them several degrees of IQ level above their counterparts who don't speak their mother tongue, Cleanliness is part of their faith whereas the idiots who grew up here have to be reminded constantly to shower and brush their teeth, even the best among them is lax in this department. The list of higher and superior quality Somalis from Somalia have over their western counterparts it too many to numerate.

This forum is where you can find prime examples of low IQ western born and raised Somalis.

 

[KillStreakIsCool]

The line is drawn for me and only one woman crosses that line towards me for the sole purpose of her being useful for her femininity. Give and take and no messing around with them females beyond the drawn lines in society,. Real man's talk here mate. Hanging out with women when you are male means you are soft and have female qualities. Somalis teach their boys to stick with the boys for a reason.

Mentioned above then to some is a rapist mentality. Basically, manhood and being proud of it means being a rapist. The softies need to get their heads out of the gutter.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

A lot of males don't think 15 year old girls are children, they would love to legally be allowed to groom, rape or marry mentally inferior girls who barely have any life experience.

Whenever these cases happen, you will see a lot of males just shrug and act as if it's normal for an adult man to sexually solicit and actually sleep with a damn child.

What a sick, twisted world we live in.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

You mean he raped your 15 year old cousin. She’s a child he took advantage of.

You'll notice a lot of Somalis will not consider this rape or grooming. I have noticed that the female gender in that forsaken hellhole are treated as if they are wholly responsible for whatever happens to them. The only time that they seem to get sympathy and attention, is if the rapist kills her. But if she is alive and pregnant, suddenly she is a willing participant and she'll end up married off to her rapist.

And that's why they will continue to groom, molest and rape with wanton abandonment.

 

[Periplus]

Manners are superior, their self-respect and respect to parents are top notch, their ability to speak fluent Somali grants them several degrees of IQ level above their counterparts who don't speak their mother tongue, Cleanliness is part of their faith whereas the idiots who grew up here have to be reminded constantly to shower and brush their teeth, even the best among them is lax in this department. The list of higher and superior quality Somalis from Somalia have over their western counterparts it too many to numerate.

This forum is where you can find prime examples of low IQ western born and raised Somalis.

This is stupidity at its peak.

How does speaking only Somali give them extra IQ points compared to diaspora that speak both English and Somali?

As for cleanliness, have you ever been to Somalia? The whole place is an overflowing garbage bin.

As for self-respect and manners, you should re-read what this thread is about. It’s about a man in Somalia with no self respect and manners.

 

[KillStreakIsCool]

This is stupidity at its peak.

How does speaking only Somali give them extra IQ points compared to diaspora that speak both English and Somali?

As for cleanliness, have you ever been to Somalia? The whole place is an overflowing garbage bin.

As for self-respect and manners, you should re-read what this thread is about. It’s about a man in Somalia with no self respect and manners.

Tell me, was it the ability to speak Somali mention that got you in a twist? You are so obvious saxib. I must have touched a raw nerve. You took this too personal obviously.

As for what the topic is about, why didn't you keep to it? But just so I help you make the connection, the dude was in the house hanging out with impressionable young girls and he couldn't control himself. Even if those girls were consenting adult women, it would still be wrong for him to sleep with them. There are several things wrong with his situation and age is only one of them.

You and other jocks throwing the word rape around need to get a grip on your immature selves. This is me being considerate about the fragility of many on here who aim above their weight.

I will not be so kind next.

 

[Periplus]

Tell me, was it the ability to speak Somali mention that got you in a twist? You are so obvious saxib. I must have touched a raw nerve. You took this too personal obviously.

As for what the topic is about, why didn't you keep to it? But just so I help you make the connection, the dude was in the house hanging out with impressionable young girls and he couldn't control himself. Even if those girls were consenting adult women, it would still be wrong for him to sleep with them. There are several things wrong with his situation and age is only one of them.

You and other jocks throwing the word rape around need to get a grip on your immature selves. This is me being considerate about the fragility of many on here who aim above their weight.

I will not be so kind next.

I have not even used the word rape in this thread, calm down.

As for Somali, I went to school in Somalia and travelled there a lot in my childhood. I am very confident in my Somali language skills.

 

[Jaydaan]

I would love to know the

You'll notice a lot of Somalis will not consider this rape or grooming. I have noticed that the female gender in that forsaken hellhole are treated as if they are wholly responsible for whatever happens to them. The only time that they seem to get sympathy and attention, is if the rapist kills her. But if she is alive and pregnant, suddenly she is a willing participant and she'll end up married off to her rapist.

And that's why they will continue to groom, molest and rape with wanton abandonment.

In sweden this wouldnt be rape either. france. Denmark, Czech, germany, Greece, France, Iceland, italy, Japan etc etc.....i could name another 40 countries tbh. 15 year olds can give consent. Obviously this guy is scumbag and deserves a severe beating. But its not rape in many many places

 

[Periplus]

I would love to know the

In sweden this wouldnt be rape either. france. Denmark, Czech, germany, Greece, France, Iceland, italy, Japan etc etc.....i could name another 40 countries tbh. 15 year olds can give consent. Obviously this guy is scumbag and deserves a severe beating. But its not rape in many many places

How wouldn’t it be rape in those countries.

Explain it very clearly for us.

 

[Jaydaan]

How wouldn’t it be rape in those countries.

Explain it very clearly for us.

Because a 15 year old can give consent....nothing in the thread said he used force to have sex with her. So yes in those countries having 15 with 15 year old is not crime. Hell in germany age of consent is 14. It used to be 13 until recently

 

[Periplus]

Because a 15 year old can give consent....nothing in the thread said he used force to have sex with her.

R*pe isn’t defined by forcing someone to have sex.

If you tricked someone into giving consent or pressured them or hid pertinent information, it all counts as sex without consent.

 

[Jaydaan]

R*pe isn’t defined by forcing someone to have sex.

If you tricked someone into giving consent or pressured them or hid pertinent information, it all counts as sex without consent.

And tricking someone is extremely hard to prove. She knew he was married and his age because they are related. its not a 30 year old pretending to be 17 to trick a girl

 

[Periplus]

And tricking someone is extremely hard to prove. She knew he was married and his age because they are related. its not a 30 year old pretending to be 17 to trick a girl

I was speaking generally in that instance.

As for this case, it is vague. But we can all agree that this incident is f*cked up, however one chooses to slice it.

 

[Jaydaan]

I was speaking generally in that instance.

As for this case, it is vague. But we can all agree that this incident is f*cked up, however one chooses to slice it.

dude needs a severe beating. If its a cousin, where the hell are the other cousins, uncles and dads? he need to be beat to an inch from death imo

 

[Angelina]

Manners are superior, their self-respect and respect to parents are top notch, their ability to speak fluent Somali grants them several degrees of IQ level above their counterparts who don't speak their mother tongue, Cleanliness is part of their faith whereas the idiots who grew up here have to be reminded constantly to shower and brush their teeth, even the best among them is lax in this department. The list of higher and superior quality Somalis from Somalia have over their western counterparts it too many to numerate.

This forum is where you can find prime examples of low IQ western born and raised Somalis.

The language part you mentioned is dumb. They speak great Somali as they live in that environment. Somalis that live in the diaspora, often speak 2 to 3 languages.

Praising them for speaking great Somali, is similar to praising a native Englishmen for speaking English or a native from Japan for speaking Japanese. Its a basic thing. Most humans of average intelligence, will be able to master the language of the society they are raised in. I mean for goodness sake, it's the one language they're exposed to.

The shower comment you made is a lie. Are you surrounded by people with special needs? Why would a grown man need to be reminded to shower? Anyways back home, due to lack of opportunity not everyone can afford to shower everyday, so they comment was more the over way around..

For someone that is talking about intellect, you sure lack critical thinking. Re-read your points and actually think about what you wrote. And no, before you try to argue that i'm triggered, i'm not. I do think people back home are more intelligent in some ways, but your specific reasonings was just silly.

 

[Angelina]

This is stupidity at its peak.

How does speaking only Somali give them extra IQ points compared to diaspora that speak both English and Somali?

As for cleanliness, have you ever been to Somalia? The whole place is an overflowing garbage bin.

As for self-respect and manners, you should re-read what this thread is about. It’s about a man in Somalia with no self respect and manners.

Absolute stupidity, I don't know where to start. He is saying they have higher IQ for simply mastering a language that is spoken in their society. The bar is in hell if that is the case. Like of course they're going to master Somali, I mean what other languages are spoken back home? If a person back home can't even master Somali then clearly they have a language impediment. Knowing how to speak a language you speak everyday properly, isn't a flex. Very silly take.

 

[KillStreakIsCool]

I have not even used the word rape in this thread, calm down.

As for Somali, I went to school in Somalia and travelled there a lot in my childhood. I am very confident in my Somali language skills.

Good for you Abti. Practice makes perfect. Keep it up.

PS: Others have used the word in objection to the refrain from mingling freely with the opposite sex. This is an Islamic etiquette that forestalls any sexual desires being pursued by individuals because of an exposure to opportunities to engage in forbidden intimacy. The challenge is to pursue those desires safely and with conscience. The idea behind restraint.

As far as the guy who slept with the 15 year old is concerned, it wouldn't matter if she wanted or not because by law, underage girls or boys can not consent. In America, if there is no rape in minor and adult sex, it is called Statutory rape. If violence or coercion is involved, it is charged as an aggravated rape etc.

Regardless, the assumption here on the forum is that we are Muslims as Somalis, therefore, those who are criticizing not intermingling with the opposite as rapist trait need to understand they are speaking as people who are not Islamic by culture. If they are doing it by mistake, they need to self-correct themselves.

 

[Mercury]

He needs to be beaten up. Doesn’t the girl have brothers? Or is he the top qabil in somaliland so he above the law

No she only got 2 elder sisters alot of relatives where disgusted by what he did and said he should be beaten up but his dad instead wanted to cover it up by doing a nikkah to save face

 

[Jaydaan]

No she only got 2 elder sisters alot of relatives where disgusted by what he did and said he should be beaten up but his dad instead wanted to cover it up by doing a nikkah to save face

akhas...i truly hate old somali men. They always cover shit