How come Xalimos from the diaspora can't cook Somali food?

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

but you said you can cook so you gon cook for her too right

Yeah, but we will take turns. However, on weekends, she needs to cook exclusively. The problem is a majority of the diaspora girls can't cook.

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Why can't they cook for their husband?

Typical feminist xalimo response. As a husband I'm entitled to work and bring money into the house and satisfy her needs, and as a women she should cook for me.

no she shouldn't. this isnt the 50's, we also work and you're a grown ass man. either cook for yourself or run along to your mommy.

 

[Saar]

Why can't they cook for their husband?

Typical feminist xalimo response. As a husband I'm entitled to work and bring money into the house and satisfy her needs, and as a women she should cook for me.

Yeah, but we will take turns. However, on weekends, she needs to cook exclusively. The problem is a majority of the diaspora girls can't cook.

Lol then don't say things like that it will trigger the xalimos

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

According to the shariah if the wife choices to work whatever income she receives belongs to her alone whereas the husband is obliged to take care of his wife and kids financially and to protect her honour physically.

And you’re talking about splitting chores how about you tell your wife next time an intruder breaks into the house to go downstairs and see who it is since you’re splitting chores

When I talk about splitting chores, I mean taking kids to dugsi, shopping, raising the kids, those types of chores.

When it comes to the wife, she should cook or clean, I will do those only if I'm by myself.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

no she shouldn't. this isnt the 50's, we also work and you're a grown ass man. either cook for yourself or run along to your mommy.

Ok, work and bring the money in abayo, its just that when I ask you for some canjeelo iyo oodkac, I expect to see it on my plate.

 

[Saar]

Yeah, but we will take turns. However, on weekends, she needs to cook exclusively. The problem is a majority of the diaspora girls can't cook.

When I talk about splitting chores, I mean taking kids to dugsi, shopping, raising the kids, those types of chores.

When it comes to the wife, she should cook or clean, I will do those only if I'm by myself.

Alla been oo isheegay

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Ok, work and bring the money in abayo, its just that when I ask you for some canjeelo iyo oodkac, I expect to see it on my plate.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Lol then don't say things like that it will trigger the xalimos

I think some of them already are

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Alla been oo isheegay

Isn't that the chores we we're talking about

 

[Saar]

I think some of them already are

choose someone me or @Cognitivedissonance

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

choose someone me or @Cognitivedissonance

I agree with both tbh, a man has to do his man duties and a women has to do her women duties.

I also agree that we can divide the chores up.

 

[GlitzyCue_]

It pisses me off that xalimos from the diaspora (Canada, US, Reer Europe) can't cook Somali food

They can't even make something simple as Canjeero/Canjeelo or Malawax

The xalimos I've dated only 1/4 of them could cook

When you confront them about it they get mad and say "Cook it yourself if you want bajiye or sambuusa "

"Go to (insert Somali restaurant) if you want hilib ari iyo baris "

"Ewww Shaah is disgusting "

What the f*ck is going on? It should be a basic requirement for xalimos from the diaspora to know how to make Somali food

I'm seriously considering marrying some xalimo from my tuulo, I love my xalimos from the West but damn, I might have to reconsider

this has made realize that if someone asks me that question I'm going to lie and say yes


Of course aboowe i know how to make canjerro and baris etc.

 

[Saar]

Yeah, but we will take turns. However, on weekends, she needs to cook exclusively. The problem is a majority of the diaspora girls can't cook.

Isn't that the chores we we're talking about

You think you are smarter huh i got you

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

this has made realize that if someone asks me that question I'm going to lie and say yes


Of course aboowe i know how to make canjerro and baris etc.

@Lola_Vonroe @Saar @Zailah you girls are one of a kind, I would marry you macaantos. You xalimos are the ideal wives.

 

[Saar]

@Lola_Vonroe @Saar @Zailah you girls are one of a kind, I would marry you macaantos. You xalimos are the ideal wives.

Are you going to cook too

 

[GlitzyCue_]

Are you going to cook too

Naaya the least you could do is cook

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

You think you are smarter huh i got you

On the weekdays, I might be by myself after work because she might finish work late. I will have to cook and clean for the house right?

But on the weekends she needs to cook and clean exclusively. I'll do my manly duties and she will do her women duties.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

You agree with that ?

 

[Malikfiqi]

I'm a fair man I cook she cleans.

 

[Saar]

On the weekdays, I might be by myself after work because she might finish work late. I will have to cook and clean for the house right?

But on the weekends she needs to cook and clean exclusively. I'll do my manly duties and she will so her women duties.

Get rid of that and you are ready to go no fiiri there is no man/women duties do it togetheeeeer