Helping wife with house chores?

[Daleelah]

Allahs creation is amazing wallahi...women in particular...how many men can stay at home..
nuture children...attend to the needs of a woman..maintain a healthy clean and happy household for yrs on end?
But a woman can take on his role...which is to go out and earn a living and provide...

 

[Factz]

forget it...

I know what you meant though. I love playing mind games sometimes.

I believe my wife should collect the kids to school and bring them back home. She should feed them, clothe them, bath them, take them to bed at bedtime and basically be that loving mother figure like my mother was when I was a little kid.

 

[Slickback]

Allahs creation is amazing wallahi...women in particular...how many men can stay at home..
nuture children...attend to the needs of a woman..maintain a healthy clean and happy household for yrs on end?
But a woman can take on his role...which is to go out and earn a living and provide...

It's almost like gender roles..... make sense

 

[Daleelah]

It's almost like gender roles..... make sense

How comes a woman can take on a bakhti mans role and go out and hustle but he can't change a diaper?..how comes we can play both roles????.
.dhiiga ha igu kickicinin..

 

[MadNomad]

Presumably we would both be working. That's life in the west. So helping around the house is pretty much a must.

 

[World]

How comes a woman can take on a bakhti mans role and go out and hustle but he can't change a diaper?..how comes we can play both roles????.
.dhiiga ha igu kickicinin..

Because Allah created you like that.

 

[Daleelah]

Because Allah created you like that

So we are amazing...right?

 

[Slickback]

How comes a woman can take on a bakhti mans role and go out and hustle but he can't change a diaper?..how comes we can play both roles????.
.dhiiga ha igu kickicinin..

I agree. The female is the superior sex of the two. That's why they should be home makers and let us one-trick ponies do what we do

 

[World]

So we are amazing...right?

Women are the best and the worst. So you guys got both ends of the stick.

 

[Daleelah]

I agree. The female is the superior sex of the two. That's why they should be home makers and let us one-trick ponies do what we do

hmmmmm...I smell sarcasm...

 

[Disappointed]

I saw a few people talking about this topic in another thread so i thought it would interesting to find out what people's views are?

Are you as a guy someone who would always help your wife with chores or only if she is ill or pregnant?

Are you as a women, someone who expects your husband to always help with chores or only when you aren't able to.

If a man can't help his wife with the chores around the house, then the poor woman married a baby.

 

[Daleelah]

@Factz I would tell you to marry a woman back home...but they have been corrupted by turkish musasal...mwahaha!

 

[AussieHustler]

Allahs creation is amazing wallahi...women in particular...how many men can stay at home..
nuture children...attend to the needs of a woman..maintain a healthy clean and happy household for yrs on end?
But a woman can take on his role...which is to go out and earn a living and provide...

Daleelah

It’s just the attitude of men and we men have to unlearn the learnt patriarchal system that was ingrained in our psychic, so we can think differently and learn how to better help our children. Australia’s current prime minister along with his sister were raised by their poor father in a housing commission/ghetto project, but he succeeded with both of his children. Nothing to do with allah, it’s the will and sacrifices a father could make towards his children.

 

[Factz]

@Factz I would tell you to marry a woman back home...but they have been corrupted by turkish musasal...mwahaha!

Abaayo I think you're underestimating me. Alot of western Xalimos were honest with me and prefered to work but they never refused to be a housewife once they have kids.

By the way, Turks are only building Mogadishu, nothing else.

 

[Muji]

He’s cooking and cleaning

I’m happy to clean after myself

But he is emptying the bins and doing the deep cleaning

 

[Daleelah]

He’s cooking and cleaning

I’m happy to clean after myself

But he is emptying the bins and doing the deep cleaning

I can imagine you giving him a toothbrush...telling him to clean the tiles with it whilst on his hands and knees...miskiin

 

[Slickback]

hmmmmm...I smell sarcasm...

Never that!

But I have changed my mind, I want to live in an ultra orthodox household with emphasized gender roles and raise the future elites

 

[Muji]

I can imagine you giving him a toothbrush...telling him to clean the tiles with it whilst on his hands and knees...miskiin

Why do you think I’m marrying a farax they’re weak and easy to manipulate. If he refuses I’m happy to kick him out and return him to his mother since he still wants to be mothered.

 

[Factz]

Why do you think I’m marrying a farax they’re weak and easy to manipulate. If he refuses I’m happy to kick him out and return him to his mother since he still wants to be mothered.

So are you paying the bills? That would mean you own the house. This is why when I have a wife, I'm not only going to let her know that this is my house but everything is mine so she can know her place and respect me.

 

[Daleelah]

Why do you think I’m marrying a farax they’re weak and easy to manipulate. If he refuses I’m happy to kick him out and return him to his mother since he still wants to be mothered.

I think everyone has a limit..sooner or later he'll tell you..naa na dhaaf...awooga la gubyee.....besides who would want a push over..nacas of a husband