Abaayo im not making any compromises I’m still going to hate men and go ham on them whenever I see one and continue to live my best life.
But if I got with a secular farax like @AussieHustler, he would tell me that meher is a backward concept that degraded the women and puts the man in finanacial slavery.
I’d rather go for a religious farax because being ultra religious is linked to having a low iq and I won’t have to spend much time with him. I can say speaking on the phone and meeting up is haram. I can also opt out of the wedding for religious reason and keep the mariage private, so people won’t find out I scammed him. Once I get my cheque I might dip but if he’s a nice guy I might hang around since he is going to give me half of his wages, which I will spend on holidays for me and my girls.