Absolutely, that's why I quoted him too. Women are also guilty for associating mehr with value, hence the reason of these '50k mehr' talks to begin with. Let's be honest, half the reason for these ridiculous mehr requests is to impress other women.
Or because of their ego or their families ego. They equate higher Mehr=higher worth which is not true at all
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Your view on Somali men is biased, and doesn't hold any weight. I see many Somali brothers who go to university, and achieve great things. I also see many Somali men who have already made it in life, and are wealthy living in big houses taking care of 2 wives. You must be talking about the Young bucks who keep killing each other. Even when I went back to Somalia, a lot of the people were working either in small stores, or manual labor. I seen bank employees, and many lucrative entrepreneurs who were men. Instead of saying false things, you should uplifting your community bruh
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