I understand the line of thinking that you're following here. I understand it but it's false.
This is a derivative of the thinking that says natural instincts are a social construct. Why go only half way?
If you're going to follow this line of reasoning, why not go all the way and assert "gender is a social construct"?
Masculinity and femininity are social constructs according to this line of reasoning.
It's up to Allah to guide people. The leftist... frankly, Marxist in this case.... kind of thinking... it snares the people who follow their desires.
It was narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yasaar said: A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “O Messenger of Allaah, I have found a woman who is from a good family and is beautiful, but she does not bear children; should I marry her?” He told him not to. Then he came to him a second time and said something similar and he told him not to marry her. Then he came to him a third time and said something similar and he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Marry the one who is loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers.”
Islam is innate.
I get that masses of Westernized women have been influenced by the Jews but..... we already know that masses of women will be following Dajjal. What masses of women follow isn't the barometer of truth.
We should reject alien ideologies that aren't in line with Islam. The Furqān is the Quran. We should measure by Quran and Sunnah, not by what has been pumped into people's heads by the Jews.
Omar, I am not going to argue with you. I know YOU as a girl, u possesses the heart of a lion. I will also not ignore your dislike of Jews, and your denial that u do not have a problem with Jews. Not if u hold radical Islamic propaganda as u do.
By explaining and acknowledging, a woman's personal feelings in conjunction with the society, I was not denying them their innate primal instinct of being a mother. The underline of my argument was that Allaah swt controls everything, including who will be a mother and who will not.
Your hadith above there, I will not accept. It is selective, and unproductive.
The buck ends with Allaah swt decree. Period.
In Quran, wife of Zakariye pbuh had a child after a dua was made, at her old age. God actually openly states "We fixed her" meaning she needed fixing.
God decree who will be a mother and who will not.
You cannot assume ALL women share an innate primal urge to be a mother. Just like u cannot say All men share an innate urge to marry or be a father.
Prophet Yahya pbuh- son of Prophet Zakariye pbuh was especially described by Allaah swt as not the married kind this was among adjectives of praise used. God specifically declared Yahya had no " inclination" to marry. This is amazing in my eyes. It clearly states directly from God that not all human have an innate nature, primal inclination to marry or be a father. or mother for that matter.
Case closed.
