Anyone worried about not being married yet?

[The Cushitic One]

I started feeling like this when I saw all the young couples who's weddings I attended get all get divorced, but most of the people got married for stupid reasons.

Sis don't let these fools scare you
Into marrying someone for
the Sake of it

Take your time and Allah will
Provide the perfect man for u x

 

[MariaMaria]

Sis don't let these fools scare you
Into marrying someone for
the Sake of it

Take your time and Allah will
Provide the perfect man for u x

Its actually the opposite , I used to feel like I might never marry and that marriage seems complicated.

Personally, I think until you have yourself sorted you shouldn't be looking to get married.

Inshallah I will meet my 6t+ Somali bae whilst travelling

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I’m really interested in working in medicine in the future. So I have been focusing a lot on my studies at this point. My studies and myself. I really just want to get into med school. I made that decision at the end of my second year of school so I have been trying my best so far to raise my GPA since the first two years I was passing but wasn’t doing great. Ever since I made that decisions haven’t been interested in talking to females. Feel like it would be a waste of time and they might hold me back. Plus I get distracted pretty easily.

The only worry I have is that I know that doctors especially residents work a lot of hours when they first start. So if do accomplish my goal inshallah I wonder if will I be able to find a women who is okay with me working long hours like that. Residents can work around 70-80 hours a week.

I’m happy being a 21 year old single college student right now
.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I’m abstaining for now but I don’t know what 25 year old Jerome is going to do if some female trying to get her cheeks demolished.

 

[MariaMaria]

I’m abstaining for now but I don’t know what 25 year old Jerome is going to do if some female trying to get her cheeks demolished.

isn't it the other way around with you ? :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[EDsomali]

I remember seeing this cute Somali girl at my school but i never had the courage to talk to her. Looking back at it now , i regret not manning up.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Marriage is a trap in this gynocentric society if a man wants to become a slave then by all means marry in the west but as the saying goes home is where the heart is.

 

[Bohol]

Somalis are obsessed with marriage.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Also I’m broke

I’m barely surviving. I work part time live with my fam(so don’t have to pay major bills) and just focus on school and my classes hard as shit I ain’t naturally gifted like others. I feel like rock lee ​

 

[The Cushitic One]

Also I’m broke

I’m barely surviving. I work part time live with my fam(so don’t have to pay major bills) and just focus on school and my classes hard as shit I ain’t naturally gifted like others. I feel like rock lee ​

Broke ppl should never marry
Atleast one person needs to
have money

 

[Halimo-2018]

No,I am just ready for it as opposed to before. I've matured now i can handle anything including divorce.I'never taken it seriously till i turned 28 lol I never even felt the clock ticking untill now. I would be happy to be single forever but my family and society doesn't think so. Oh well I love kids so i can handle it i guess. I am just ready to be done with it but also not willing to settle for any disrespectful arrogant faraax. I am also very observant person so I learned from my family and friends mistakes.

 

[Hmmmm]

To be honest I'd rather focus on my future goals but if I do meet someone, where we are going to push each other to succeed in life, in terms of career etc I will not mind.

But at the moment I'm in no rush, im currently married to 3 things, money, job and these gains

 

[Muji]

No I’m not worried at all

Because I know even if I leave till my 40s, most Somali men will have me.

Infact as long as you’re breathing Somali guys will come running!

I even have some back up options on this forum.

@Slickback snd @Kingjames I’m interested in one of y’all because he’s tall and the other one will give me a caramel baby.

Why don’t you two fight it out for number one position. Winner takes it all.

 

[Wei]

Somalis are obsessed with marriage.

Adulthood is s scary period sxb. So much uncertainty; what should I study, will I find a good paying job/or start a buisness,when will I get married, etc. I just take it one day at a time

 

[Hybrid]

Yh but that makes you question him more since his standards are low yet he isn't able to find a Bosnian girl what's wrong with him?
And wallahi @Ferrari and @Factz I hope you guys are lying otherwise why are you guys so long for. Like there's lot of barakh from marrying young. If anything a practicing boy should be more quick to marry since girls can provide for themselves now a days. However what men want they still can't get. Whats the extraness?
I'll pray to hear of your marriages on here to nice somali girls. (Lol imagine two from somalispot get married through here)

Western Somalis in their 20s are still ciyaal mama. They're not ready for marriage. Divorce rate in the Somali community is already high.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

My cousin was worried about marriage than decided to get married. She got divorced in 10 months

 

[Wei]

So many couples getting divorced, immature

My cousin was worried about marriage than decided to get married. She got divorced in 10 months

Wedding season xalimos SMH

 

[Bernie Madoff]

So many couples getting divorced, immature


Wedding season xalimos SMH

Wallahi its so common i have like 2 other cousins who's marriage didn't last over a year. My one paki friend from my old high school got married didnt even last longer than a few months. All these people i talked about are in there early to to late 20s. Its not a coincidence

People just rush to get married cause they are horny or for women case time is against them. Instead of just going with the flow and wait for the right person they instead rush into it which will make them regret it after

 

[Hmmmm]

Western Somalis in their 20s are still ciyaal mama. They're not ready for marriage. Divorce rate in the Somali community is already high.

Are divorce rates back home high ?

 

[Halimo-2018]

Wallahi its so common i have like 2 other cousins who's marriage didn't last over a year. My one paki friend from my old high school got married didnt even last longer than a few months. All these people i talked about are in there early to to late 20s. Its not a coincidence

People just rush to get married cause they are horny or for women time is against them. Instead of just going with the flow and wait for the right person they instead rush into it which will make them regret it after

LOL Its too much hype for nothing.Weddings are distraction.I noticed that too. Its very immature and embarrassing in the end.