Anyone worried about not being married yet?

[Western4Life]

You do realise a halal date would
Mean bringing a male chaperone

Everyone here has haram dates

:siilaanyolaugh: But than again this
Site is full of introverts

Introverts are normal. What is not normal is social awkwardness and many suffer from this disease.

 

[MariaMaria]

Introverts are normal. What is not normal is social awkwardness and many suffer from this disease.

I said this a while ago, compared to other ethnicities Somalis are soo socially awkward

Can't even have mixed weddings here in the UK anymore, parents don't want boys and girls to mingle

 

[Hybrid]

Are divorce rates back home high ?

although divorce rates is increasing in the cities since xalimos are becoming more materialistic and every woman wants to marry a rich farah or qurbajoog, it's probably less than 20% in the cities and rarely happens in tuulo and miyiga.

 

[The Cushitic One]

I said this a while ago, compared to other ethnicities Somalis are soo socially awkward

Can't even have mixed weddings here in the UK anymore, parents don't want boys and girls to mingle

Hey hey not all of us are socially
Awkward

Some of us are social
Butterflies also I love mixed
Weddings hardly any now

 

[Ferrari]

Sis don't let these fools scare you
Into marrying someone for
the Sake of it

Take your time and Allah will
Provide @Ferrari x

@MariaMaria naa hit my luuq hadaan afuray

 

[World]

Nah I’m too young to be thinking about marriage, maybe in 5-7 years time.

 

[MariaMaria]

Are divorce rates back home high ?

I don't think the hype to get married is as big with the youth in Somali than it is in the west

a lot of girls in Somali were telling my they will not get married unless it's with a guy from the west and that decent or well off guys who are born and bread in Somali marry their first cousins to keep the money in the family.

 

[MariaMaria]

@MariaMaria naa hit my luuq hadaan afuray

did anyone read my op post

 

[anonymous34]

The male has no biological clock, around the age the female milk begins to sour badly (late 20's early 30's) he begins to enter his prime.

The female's physique and physiognomy also deteriorates rapidly unlike the male that outlasts her by decades.

Highly perishable goods are always luscious and succulent like no other food and you can attract much more with it if your smart & ACT before it begins to rot away.

Awowe macaan hope Ramadan is going well for you

 

[Hmmmm]

I don't think the hype to get married is as big with the youth in Somali than it is in the west

a lot of girls in Somali were telling my they will not get married unless it's with a guy from the west and that decent or well off guys who are born and bread in Somali marry their first cousins to keep the money in the family.

Interesting, I'm planning to visit hargeisa soon, I hope I don't get mobbed by xalimos back home.

 

[MariaMaria]

Hey hey not all of us are socially
Awkward

Some of us are social
Butterflies also I love mixed
Weddings hardly any now

mixed weddings were the shit

also soo much drama :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[MariaMaria]

Interesting, I'm planning to visit hargeisa soon, I hope I don't get mobbed by xalimos back home.

 

[Ferrari]

did anyone read my op post

Naa heedhe dhagayso, u would be lucky to have me. I am tall af, and i am light skin, i know every xalimo wants light skin babies so her friends can say mashallah ur baby is light skin.
I got lacag too, so much so i am on probation for depositing too much lacag. Naa soo gal
@The Cushitic One adna soo gal.

 

[Mercury]

Acctually I never been worried about marriage I was more worried about the huge responsibility that comes with it
After all youre going from taking care of your own self to taking care of your wife and kids providing for them and making sure their needs are met

Just that thought stuck with me cause I want to provide the very best future for My future family so instead of marrying early like many of My friends did (many divorced now)

I instead Worked on myself and My own goals even buyed Hooyo macaan a house back home

Now Im married Alxamdulilah I wouldnt have it any other way seeing her makes My day brighter

 

[star]

Acctually I never been worried about marriage I was more worried about the huge responsibility that comes with it
After all youre going from taking care of your own self to taking care of your wife and kids providing for them and making sure their needs are met

Just that thought stuck with me cause I want to provide the very best future for My future family so instead of marrying early like many of My friends did (many divorced now)

I instead Worked on myself and My own goals even buyed Hooyo macaan a house back home

Now Im married Alxamdulilah I wouldnt have it any other way seeing her makes My day brighter

Aww mashallah

And congrats. May Allah bless your marriage.

 

[Wei]

Get angry all you like. I lay down the facts.

This is the difference between every other ethnicity and Somalis: the former who happens to be single chooses to be single while a single Somali does not choose to be single.

I have not seen such a high rate of singledom like the Somali community.

No such thing "halal" dates sxb. I've taken out numerous xalimos and women in general. Shit will get sexual I don't have a problem with dating after 18 in the West but to encourage middle schoolers to engage in dating will only lead to "16 and pregnant xalimos" xalimos.

If I was a father, I wouldn't want my daughter dating underage.

Just my two cents

 

[The Cushitic One]

Naa heedhe dhagayso, u would be lucky to have me. I am tall af, and i am light skin, i know every xalimo wants light skin babies so her friends can say mashallah ur baby is light skin.
I got lacag too, so much so i am on probation for depositing too much lacag. Naa soo gal
@The Cushitic One adna soo gal.

I am light skin to tho

Alla explains your kibir now

Do you take pics like this and
Lick your lips when talkin to
Girls ? I Hate that shit

 

[MariaMaria]

Naa heedhe dhagayso, u would be lucky to have me. I am tall af, and i am light skin, i know every xalimo wants light skin babies so her friends can say mashallah ur baby is light skin.
I got lacag too, so much so i am on probation for depositing too much lacag. Naa soo gal
@The Cushitic One adna soo gal.

I'm not obsessed with light skinned dudes like that

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[Mercury]

Aww mashallah

And congrats. May Allah bless your marriage.

Jazakallah khair walaal

 

[Mercury]

I think these days alot of Somalis marry either too early with no job and education

Or for the wrong reasons Ive seen many chicks who only get married so get can have their own place and guys who only want a wife who can Cook and take care of them just like hooyo did