I have this one cousin who is as old as my mom. He came to the United States with my mom and he was a xaafid of Quran and very Islamic. He married this fat white lady who is a gaalo and now he became a gaalo and has an attitude of a white person. All the people in my family who married foreigners except for him are divorced, which is why I don’t want to and don’t recommend marrying foreigners.
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Lmao how can u say that mosques encourage EA to marry out
What you have to realise is some masjids just want more and more reverts to stay in the deen obviously especially as places like prisons are bringing more and more people to the deen so they want the brother to marry a Muslim women to help him stay in the deen.
If the dude just came out of the prison, could he afford the mehr for an Asian girl, no he can't. Asians are more established in the UK so therefore there are more of them doing well so their daughters demand higher mehrs.
Then it comes down which muslim community are recent, numerous and have beautiful women who practise the deen and aren't doing as well, its us Somalis which why the masjids work with Somali elders to get the women they want for the guys.
Amazing. Xalimos are traded away like pokemon cards. Nice to know.
Trust me g. Its mad. It is obviously a minority of weddings within the UK Somali community but it stills exists.
Like @embarassing said, when you divorce a Somali, you can easily find your children.
There are too many instances where Somali women have had their children abducted and taken to foreign countries.
Compatibility is key and @Abdurahman_somali has provided a hadith.
Date who you want, marry who you want but bear in mind that a marriage to a foreigner has issues that marriage to a fellow Somali does not.
There are too many instances where Somali women have had their children abducted and taken to foreign countries.
Compatibility is key and @Abdurahman_somali has provided a hadith.
Date who you want, marry who you want but bear in mind that a marriage to a foreigner has issues that marriage to a fellow Somali does not.
Ask yourself this question:
How come almost every single mixed-race Somali person you have met or are related to comes from a broken home?
Now compare that to the full-blooded Somali people you know.
Be very careful and vet foreigners more than you would a Somali, the risks are far greater.
Mixed race Somalis deserve stable households as much as full-blooded Somalis.
Do right by your future offspring by making informed decisions.
How come almost every single mixed-race Somali person you have met or are related to comes from a broken home?
Now compare that to the full-blooded Somali people you know.
Be very careful and vet foreigners more than you would a Somali, the risks are far greater.
Mixed race Somalis deserve stable households as much as full-blooded Somalis.
Do right by your future offspring by making informed decisions.
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Most Somalis come from broken homes themselves. The father is kicked out by the mother who lives off benefits.
Not true.
Most Somalis have parents that are still together.
Even most young Somalis are married even if if it's their second marriage.
Also, have you ever heard of a case where a Somali man/woman runs away with the children to another country?
Nothing wrong with interracial marriages. That's where society is headed like it or not. It's all about compatibility at the end of the day.
It's sickening how quickly some of these girls marry former convicts. I'll never forget the case of the lady who married a former convict "revert" who was caught raping her son. He was just a pedophile that found a single mother to prey on.
These "salafi" mosques and their Imams are preying on gullible Somali women to entice convict "reverts".
They think the Somali community is filled with people who have no cultural identity and no pride.
Don't let them "Akhi" and "Ukhti" your sister into marriage.
It's the same mosques that encourage Somali women to lower their meher demand for "the sake of Allah" because these broke "reverts" cannot afford meher.
Hence the horrible "Cheap and clean" rumour.
Allah has given you the right for meher for a reason, if he cannot afford to get married, how is he going to afford to pay the bills? Get a grip.
They think the Somali community is filled with people who have no cultural identity and no pride.
Don't let them "Akhi" and "Ukhti" your sister into marriage.
It's the same mosques that encourage Somali women to lower their meher demand for "the sake of Allah" because these broke "reverts" cannot afford meher.
Hence the horrible "Cheap and clean" rumour.
Allah has given you the right for meher for a reason, if he cannot afford to get married, how is he going to afford to pay the bills? Get a grip.
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NAAFO
VALOR MORGHULIS
That's correct.
People are individuals tho, some will always marry out.
I date out, but i dont plan on ruining my superior Ogaden genes with dirty none Somali genes.
@Ferrari brother/sister whatever you are I'm assuming your a brother,
please don't be a apologist for not choosing to uphold your culture and its success as well as its survival you must understand that these ajanabi men/women despise certain members of your community in an attempt to utilise the adage of divide and conquer in addition to this these people want to become part of our community but don't necessarily want to reciprocate by you whether male or female to become apart of theirs which indicates the hatred they have for us.
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Why is the focus on women hmmm marriage hit or miss foreign or not doesn't matter.
@Halimo-2018
Weligaa ma maqashay, ‘wixii xun, xalimo ayaa leh?’ More Somali guys marry or date foreigners than Somali girls and if one Somali chick does that, awliyada like @NAAFO will be too upset.
NAAFO
VALOR MORGHULIS
@AussieHustler G'day mate to the chap from down under who it seems is obsessed with me but broski let me enlighten your secular/atheist liberal mind as it may have curtailed your sound judgement in addition to your critical faculties, thusly compelling you to endorse, propagate, ideals that are inherently negative and erroneous in ways that we can't even begin to conceive of.
Such as liberalism and everything that's inextricably linked to it, however this "prompts one to ask the question" how has this ideaology served the west and particularly the sacrosanct institutions like the nucleus family. The agenda of compromising this foundation that has inevitably contributed to the decline in the west that you appear to be a crusader of, you like to push 'n' peddle on our beloved people such as the legitimisation of the exploitation of your sisters, brothers, and them being resigned to the fate of being fodder for opportunists. Men such as yourself are ultimately the cause of what has precipitated the predicament of what our beloved people have been reduced to by what certain malcontents espouse who shall remain nameless the very same inept men who are the benefactors and culprits regarding the turmoil that we've been unwilling participants in for decades who also failed in their duty as men that also professed dangerous ideas.
you referred to me as awliyada which I must admit my somali is limited but if I'm right in assuming what you mean by the term of awliyada (male guardian) then yes I am just as every muslim & specifically somali male is, I think the term your looking for is gheerah my friend.
however I would also advise you to not chastise our sisters who love their people and have dignity, grace, pride, and most importantly gheerah and that includes not chastising your aunt so please pass on my salutations and love kkkkkkkk
@NAAFO
Sxb, ‘who loves their people’? From the people here who are xenophobic towards ‘foreigners’ and are the same people who are discriminatory towards other Somalis because of tribalism? Check them in Somalia politics forum and the Tribal council. Some of them will kill their wives if they praise the other clan’s warlords aka presidents. Are these the people that you consider to ‘love their people’? Fool me once......,
Sxb, ‘who loves their people’? From the people here who are xenophobic towards ‘foreigners’ and are the same people who are discriminatory towards other Somalis because of tribalism? Check them in Somalia politics forum and the Tribal council. Some of them will kill their wives if they praise the other clan’s warlords aka presidents. Are these the people that you consider to ‘love their people’? Fool me once......,
IstarZ
A mere finger can’t obscure the sun.
Reads like scaremongering. We can’t decide other ppls fate just our own.
A Somali friend’s cousin was murdered, chopped up and put in the freezer by her Somali husband. She had a little baby. I’m sure there are similar stories of Somali women being beaten, emotionally abused or even murdered by their Somali husbands.
I volunteered in a women’s shelter a while back. There were women from diverse ethnic backgrounds mostly married to and mistreated by men from their own backgrounds. It’s not a full-proof method. There are crazies in every ethnic background and guurka waa calaf.
I do agree compatibility is important but ppl will prioritize what is of significance to them. For some it’s cultural/language compatibility, for others educational/professional background, yet for another group it’s wealth and lineage. It’s a personal perspective/choice imo.
A Somali friend’s cousin was murdered, chopped up and put in the freezer by her Somali husband. She had a little baby. I’m sure there are similar stories of Somali women being beaten, emotionally abused or even murdered by their Somali husbands.
I volunteered in a women’s shelter a while back. There were women from diverse ethnic backgrounds mostly married to and mistreated by men from their own backgrounds. It’s not a full-proof method. There are crazies in every ethnic background and guurka waa calaf.
I do agree compatibility is important but ppl will prioritize what is of significance to them. For some it’s cultural/language compatibility, for others educational/professional background, yet for another group it’s wealth and lineage. It’s a personal perspective/choice imo.
Abdisamad
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Who are they? And what happened to them?
