You can’t teach a little girl to grow up quickly and teach a boy women will do everything for him

[Mercury]

Lets be honest

A thing thats very normal around Somali households here and back home is that mothers dont acknowledge that they treat their boys like kings who are getting a hotel service when they live with their parents While they make sure the Daughters help around the house cooking and cleaning (even if shes much younger than the boy)

I kid you not back home You Will see a 9-10 year old preparing food for her 20 yr old brother



Atleast She learns responsibility from a Young age I get that the reason behind it is to prepare her for becoming a wife and mother one day

But The spoilt child becomes a man and suddenly you want him to be responsible for a home? he wont be able to because at his moms house nobody held him acountable for his actions Somali women are basically marrying an adult Child

When I get sons or daughters I will treat them the same 50/50 and have the same expectations from them I mean you can’t teach a little girl to grow up quickly and teach the boy women will do everything for him and later in life expect the boy to grow into an adult who is responsible for a family

 

[Abkaal]

I'll still raise them like that @Mercury

Men are Kings and should be treated like the kings they are.

 

[Mercury]

I'll still raise them like that @Mercury

Men are Kings and should be treated like the kings they are.

You know What you’re saying is you would be fine with having a kid that feels entitled and expects from others to help him with basic stuff

 

[Abkaal]

You know What you’re saying is you would be fine with having a kid that feels entitled and expects from others to help him with basic stuff

Yeah what is wrong with that

 

[Saywa]

Lets be honest

A thing thats very normal around Somali households here and back home is that mothers dont acknowledge that they treat their boys like kings who are getting a hotel service when they live with their parents While they make sure the Daughters help around the house cooking and cleaning (even if shes much younger than the boy)

I kid you not back home You Will see a 9-10 year old preparing food for her 20 yr old brother



Atleast She learns responsibility from a Young age I get that the reason behind it is to prepare her for becoming a wife and mother one day

But The spoilt child becomes a man and suddenly you want him to be responsible for a home? he wont be able to because at his moms house nobody held him acountable for his actions Somali women are basically marrying an adult Child

When I get sons or daughters I will treat them the same 50/50 and have the same expectations from them I mean you can’t teach a little girl to grow up quickly and teach the boy women will do everything for him and later in life expect the boy to grow into an adult who is responsible for a family

Wow mashallah.

Marry me.

 

[Ramen]

Somali mothers are toxic

 

[Always Lit]

Lets be honest

A thing thats very normal around Somali households here and back home is that mothers dont acknowledge that they treat their boys like kings who are getting a hotel service when they live with their parents While they make sure the Daughters help around the house cooking and cleaning (even if shes much younger than the boy)

I kid you not back home You Will see a 9-10 year old preparing food for her 20 yr old brother



Atleast She learns responsibility from a Young age I get that the reason behind it is to prepare her for becoming a wife and mother one day

But The spoilt child becomes a man and suddenly you want him to be responsible for a home? he wont be able to because at his moms house nobody held him acountable for his actions Somali women are basically marrying an adult Child

When I get sons or daughters I will treat them the same 50/50 and have the same expectations from them I mean you can’t teach a little girl to grow up quickly and teach the boy women will do everything for him and later in life expect the boy to grow into an adult who is responsible for a family

i hope u dont have sons.

 

[Mercury]

Yeah what is wrong with that

If you’re not teaching him Responsibility and not holding him accountable for his actions guess what?

Later down the line when he gets married when things get tough he’s gonna take the easy way out and leave his family behind

 

[Saywa]

If you’re not teaching him Responsibility and not holding him accountable for his actions guess what?

Later down the line when he gets married when things get tough he’s gonna take the easy way out and leave his family behind

You are a beautiful person, don't ever change.

Dusty niggas on ss wish they were as smart as you.

You must get all the ladies.

 

[Mercury]

i hope u dont have sons.

I’m speaking the truth if you don’t want to admit it

 

[Mercury]

You are a beautiful person, don't ever change.

Dusty niggas on ss wish they were as smart as you.

You must get all the ladies.

Actually I’m married my eyes are only for one qalbi

 

[Abkaal]

If you’re not teaching him Responsibility and not holding him accountable for his actions guess what?

Later down the line when he gets married when things get tough he’s gonna take the easy way out and leave his family behind

My Dad didnt leave the family behind. Dw I am gonna raise them like that sxb. Girls should know how to cook and clean before marriage.

 

[Mercury]

My Dad didnt leave the family behind. Dw I am gonna raise them like that sxb. Girls should know how to cook and clean before marriage.

And as should boys cause than they can help their family as well

 

[Saywa]

Actually I’m married my eyes are only for one qalbi

Mashallah. She is a lucky lady.

 

[Abkaal]

And as should boys cause than they can help their family as well

It is a womans job to cook and clean for her husband

 

[Yungmulababy23]

my mother use to force me to do the dishes and clean, my mom is a feminist

 

[Gooney112]

Boys are kings though. I would treat my boys as kings and daughters as servants. Thats just how we roll

 

[Mercury]

It is a womans job to cook and clean for her husband

And it’s a mans job to take care of his family and house

You should show some naxariis and consideration towards your wife

I seen many Somali guys that believe their role is solely to provide for the family when that’s far away from the truth

 

[Saywa]

Boys are kings though. I would treat my boys as kings and daughters as servants. Thats just how we roll

Lets hope you are shooting blanks.

 

[Abkaal]

And it’s a mans job to take care of his family and house

You should show some naxariis and consideration towards your wife

I seen many Somali guys that believe their role is solely to provide for the family when that’s far away from the truth

It is what it is sxb i am only here to provide for the family