Lets be honest
A thing thats very normal around Somali households here and back home is that mothers dont acknowledge that they treat their boys like kings who are getting a hotel service when they live with their parents While they make sure the Daughters help around the house cooking and cleaning (even if shes much younger than the boy)
I kid you not back home You Will see a 9-10 year old preparing food for her 20 yr old brother
Atleast She learns responsibility from a Young age I get that the reason behind it is to prepare her for becoming a wife and mother one day
But The spoilt child becomes a man and suddenly you want him to be responsible for a home? he wont be able to because at his moms house nobody held him acountable for his actions Somali women are basically marrying an adult Child
When I get sons or daughters I will treat them the same 50/50 and have the same expectations from them I mean you can’t teach a little girl to grow up quickly and teach the boy women will do everything for him and later in life expect the boy to grow into an adult who is responsible for a family
A thing thats very normal around Somali households here and back home is that mothers dont acknowledge that they treat their boys like kings who are getting a hotel service when they live with their parents While they make sure the Daughters help around the house cooking and cleaning (even if shes much younger than the boy)
I kid you not back home You Will see a 9-10 year old preparing food for her 20 yr old brother
Atleast She learns responsibility from a Young age I get that the reason behind it is to prepare her for becoming a wife and mother one day
But The spoilt child becomes a man and suddenly you want him to be responsible for a home? he wont be able to because at his moms house nobody held him acountable for his actions Somali women are basically marrying an adult Child
When I get sons or daughters I will treat them the same 50/50 and have the same expectations from them I mean you can’t teach a little girl to grow up quickly and teach the boy women will do everything for him and later in life expect the boy to grow into an adult who is responsible for a family