this is correct. we have a population surplus now due to this peaceful age we live in where there is less war killing off men and also better tech and medicine which is also extending lives. The game is the game
Xalimo in MN wonders why Somali guys don’t approach
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marriage is overrated anyway
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It's weird how western Somalis are piss poor in the dating game when somalis in general have a history of good dating culture.
Xaliimos are lucky Somali Faraxs DONT approach. Believe me their Haaayaac is good and islamic, I once flirted with a random farah in traffic, and he followed me home. I had to stop by a police station parking lot for him to go away. Never did eye contact flirting again. (i did more)
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Somali women go to weddings to stake out a potential male prospect, then through an associate or a relative get the guy’s number, and take it from there, and vice-versa with men looking for a woman. This direct approach she is talking about on random streets doesn’t exist, unless the male already has a point of reference, like a mutual friend and they have been in the same spaces before so they’re not exact strangers.
A girl moving to a different country or state, with no friends or relatives is a big red flag though. That’s what White girls do when they want to hide their pasts and press ‘restart the game’.
I have no respect for men who approach women at weddings.
No respectable Somali man would do that
I disagree. Weddings are the perfect place for Somalis. It is respectable and there is security.
I disagree
I look 10/10 on weddings so any man that approaches me is purely for looks.
Let me not get started the fact that weddings should be segregated, so the kind of MAN I want is one that does not go to mixed weddings.
Ms Nuura
Take several seats down.
Odious Delirium
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No.
How would a man approach you at a wedding unless you go to mixed ones tho
I've never been to a mixed weddings in my life.
But I was talking hypothetically,
Odious Delirium
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Ok I get you I thought you where talking from experience.
Odious Delirium
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Na you got to set the standard and people will either accommodate or they will only invite you when it's not mixed. Your under no obligation to attend or you can go and leave shortly if you don't want to be "rude"
I only get invited to non mixed/no music wedding. They happen rather frequently.
you want me to deny family events and make my whole family angry? or family friends? they don't even know what no free mixing means and they don't care,I will break more bridges and people will see me as the over religious guy who doesn't care about his family, it will cause more harm
plus I have no problem going to school and going outside freemixing why would I have a problem going to a wedding as long as I don't look or engage with the women
oh no
Alhamdulillah I've been blessed with the kind of people around me, my family and friends don't do mixed weddings.
The mixed weddings these days are nothing short of a club from what I've seen on social media
Odious Delirium
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You do you man. I guess I don't got to deal with that because no one in my family goes to mixed weddings and none of my mates would do it either.
We haven't broken any bridges. People respect principles. There is a difference between free mixing in schools/work because its a path towards your lively hood so is a necessity and going to a free mixing wedding of your own will. There is nothing necessary about it and you don't gain any benefit from it.
Odious Delirium
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Yeah your right it's basically the soically acceptable version of clubbing within the muslim community where people meet, socialise, dance, flaunt etc
Odious Delirium
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Not all some are mixed some aren't based on whoever is getting married and what they want.Aren’t Somali weddings separate? Lol
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