Would you guys marry a single mother ?

[senor chang]

Sure why not

 

[mrlog]

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[Bundasliga]

As second wife yes

 

[Bundasliga]

He's too predictable. We know what he'll say.

He'll probably call single mothers used goods.

Apparently he's not

Dumarka somali are the backbone of our society especially single mothers. Allow no dhowr

 

[mrlog]

These comments are exposing yall. It really shows how much the world hates kids and women. Like what does a poor child have to do with the mother? I see why single moms get so much hate. They really are not missing much if yall talk like this. Smh i love reading men exposing their sick twisted ways thinking as if they're withholding something when Allah is actually protecting the mother and kids. No real men left in this world.. Uuf

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[Ladylike]

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I would reject him because he is a bum not because the kids. Why not say she's a bum why talk and bash the kids? Some of yall are sick.

 

[mrlog]

I would reject him because he is a bum not because the kids. Why not say she's a bum why talk and bash the kids? Some of yall are sick.

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[Giovanni]

If you would marry a single how old the would the kid be max and what age should you be less picky ?

No

 

[Jaydaan]

I would reject him because he is a bum not because the kids. Why not say she's a bum why talk and bash the kids? Some of yall are sick.

Most people don’t want to raise kids that are not theirs. People are just more honest online. In real life I would tell you offcourse. Kids are blessing and keep it moving.

 

[Angelina]

Most people don’t want to raise kids that are not theirs. People are just more honest online. In real life I would tell you offcourse. Kids are blessing and keep it moving.

I have no issues saying no in real life.

 

[Jaydaan]

I have no issues saying no in real life.

You are a rare kind. We are too pc.

 

[TekNiKo]

Yes I would, most chubby Halimos are single mother. Especially in the West they got a fat cheque from govt.

 

[Arma]

Personally, I wouldn't. Also, some guys that specifically seek out single mothers, that don't have a kid/s of their own already, are incredibly sus.

 

[Angelina]

Personally, I wouldn't. Also, some guys that specifically seek out single mothers, that don't have a kid/s of their own already, are incredibly sus.

You're a single father. You have more in common with people with kids, than a young woman who would want to start life with a man similar to her.

Single fathers and mothers should marry each other.

 

[Dualke]

I've heard guys say they would be more accepting of a single mother with daughters than sons which is such a red flag, they sound so predatory. They would justify it by saying boys are harder to raise and how they would possibly try to fight them ( like they're wild animals or something). Just your typical extremely illogical and asinine way of thinking.

Projection, nobody says this

 

[Bundasliga]

I've heard guys say they would be more accepting of a single mother with daughters than sons which is such a red flag, they sound so predatory. They would justify it by saying boys are harder to raise and how they would possibly try to fight them ( like they're wild animals or something). Just your typical extremely illogical and asinine way of thinking.

pedos/predators seek out single mothers
The abuse & molestation rate is significantly higher with step dads/mom in the house.

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

If you would marry a single how old the would the kid be max and what age should you be less picky ?

 

[anonimo]

I've heard guys say they would be more accepting of a single mother with daughters than sons which is such a red flag, they sound so predatory. They would justify it by saying boys are harder to raise and how they would possibly try to fight them ( like they're wild animals or something). Just your typical extremely illogical and asinine way of thinking.

There is a perfectly good reason why some wouldn't marry a single mother with boy/boys.

Every chance that a boy will be more resentful of a man who is not his father. As he becomes a man, he will also be more assertive if he has a Cuqdad and this can make the home hell for the man who is not his father. Not saying it is the Step Father's job to discipline him but the household dynamic will be unstable because of the lack of a male authority figure for all if this boy gets to do what he wants whilst his half brothers from a different father are being kept in check by their father. This is obviously a worse case scenario but why take the risk of knowing that some boys will undoubtedly grow up with Cuqdad.

As for those who marry an older Garoob with boys, that is asking for trouble in many cases. Funniest, in a dark sense, shit I came across was this Middle Aged Farax looking for a warm bed and home cooked meals after work who married a woman with delinquent sons. One day, the Mofos battered him and dragged him to the balcony of their high rise threatening to throw him off.

There was also the tragic case a couple of years ago of a Miskin Farax in the West Drayton area who was killed by his unhinged son in law whilst he was in bed. He beat him to death with a pole.

These kind of incidents make many men generally wary of raising boys that are not their own. You do not generally come into contact with step daughters as the Hooyo raises them.

I could neve raise children not my own for I have seen how hard it is to even raise children of siblings when it comes to discipline. Cuqdad is real and I could never discipline them out of fear of their Iil!

Much respect though to those who righteously do, they are made of better stuff, be they Step Fathers/Mothers or people who raised their siblings children in the West after the Civil War etc.

 

[Man with a garuun]

I am about to......

 

[solo_man]

I was asking because my uncle is in his 30s and he is open to the idea. But my cousin who’s single and in his late 30s said he would never lol

men who are already married would be more open to making them second wives