You forget because of culture, the two can be intertwined and not viewed as separate. In that background, Love leads to good sex. I am of the type that can enjoy sex only through love and being connected to the woman, otherwise, it is as if I devalued Sex akin to paying a prostitute for few minute's pleasure. Does not feel great to me that way. I give meaning to Sex. And it actually does define us as humans and creatures with emotions.
PS: You are welcome for a private session. I keep secrets. I am not immature to expect people to speak about their private life in the open. Plus your word gymnastics speak for themselves dear. You can't bring yourself to admit the simple fact of Sex being great and a positive feature in creatures. Why the f*ck is that? LOL.
I even let you define the intimacy as you see fit and you choose what you enjoy - if you ever experience any sort of intimacy anyway with someone. Otherwise, we agree on everything.
But .... But.... come back with the cute obvious denials .... I think you like this conversation and I don't blame you. I would have liked myself if I was outside my body too. I would have stalked infomatic to learn something.