@Qoordeer you're putting me in a tough spot. Queen knowles will karbaash me. very well, I QueenSamaale shall Bless you with my wisdom.
Tbh, Lets not act blind and bash knowles, cuz her Posts have Some truth in them. I don't necessarily agree with her faarax bashing posts. She mentioned Somali men oppressing women and making them house slaves. Wallah I've observed many families and I've heard of many were the men of the house cannot be considered men both Islamically and culturally. They dont spend time with their children, are ungrateful, some even beat their wives. Absolute dayoothiin.
Wallah, I'm also wondering if some Somali women are into masochism. Qaar waa musiiboyiin, they intentionally annoy their husbands and some are not even willing to do their share in marriage. It's as if they want to be beaten. When the husband actually hits her, they divorce for a short period. After a day or two you'll see them happily married. What kind of woman tolerates abuse? We can all agree no man should beat his wife, and the one who does is a dayooth. Nayaada, if your husband is working 8 hours and you are at home, do your share cooking and cleaning is becomes your responsibility. If the are kids then I think the husband should help out.
Then their is the prefrence of Male children alhamdulillah, my parents have never been like this. Some times you'll hear of Somali girls doing all the house work alongside uni/high school. School itself is stressful imagine having to take care of the whole house.
At the Same time I see a lot of Somali girls bash their hooyos saying that girls do all the hool. This type of behaviour makes my blood boil. Were is the fact that perhaps her son is disobidient and causing trouble for her. We all know that boys are harder to manage when they are past a certain age. Some will start doing drugs some will probably enter gangs. So only way to keep her son out of greater danger, she becomes his "servant". Shell cook, clean and wash his clothes because she wants to keep her son the house for even a second longer. Besides, who said you have to be the same as your caasi brother, why can't you be the baari one? As the great careys ciise once said "Hooyada was Lama huraan." You may not agree with hooyos, but at least respect the love they and dedication they have. I blame all of this on the lack of religious knowledge and the fathers lack of presence.
One thing Somali men of sspot need to do, is to empathize with women. Women go through so much struggle( not saying men dont) In life, labour, menstruation and constant mood swings. My message to men is your posts may be for jokes but us women never forget, so please stop indulging in bullying women. Another thing is a lot of Somali men complain and are way too emotional, saying heblaayo said this about let's generalize this to all Somali men. Know that, the you found on the dustiest corner of social media, isn't me or any other SOMALI woman. NO Woman can call herself true Somali without loving her other half- Somali man. Rag iska dhiga, sida dumarka yaa loo murmin. Occasional banter between the sexes is ok.
You men have been placed with great responsibility. look(men and women) at this verse and reflect.
(4:34) Men are the protec-tors and maintainers of women56 because Allah has made one of them excel over the other,57 and because they spend out of their possessions (to support them). Thus righteous women are obedient and guard the rights of men in their absence under Allah's protection.58 As for women of whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and remain apart from them in beds, and beat them.59 Then if they obey you, do not seek ways to harm them. Allah is Exalted, Great.
I ain't no xaliimo or Faarax basher, I karbaash them both.

Waryaa, qoordheer you better appreciate this, It took me a long time to write this. For some odd reason Knowles seems like a sweet xaliimo who is living out her fantasies.