I don't have any of the traits you mentioned and my mother taught me many values that I still uphold to this day.People raised by single mothers are emotionally broken people. The boys are angry, they can't feel love, give loyalty, they have no sympathy. While the girls have father issues and need attention by any man who give will it to her. Usually they will act like whores on Twitter or real life to get attention.
Wallahi you can easily tell who was raised by a single mother.
Our fathers would correct us when we did something wrong. Everyday he would teach us a moral or lesson or value. Who is teaching these things to single mother children? Their single mothers cannot raise children alone.
My children will not marry single mother children. No one wants their children married to damaged people. They know nothing about raising a family and their brain is wired differently. You cannot undo the damage.
You are trying to make single motherhood normal. Its not. I would not wish this arrangement on even my enemy. Stop making it look like it's a good thing.
if I was stabbed in my stomache and I turned out okayI disagree.
I wouldn't really consider myself raised by a single mother cause my father was always connected to the family despite the divorce.
What I'm tryna say is that it doesn't depend on the single parenting alone.It's the environment and the character of the single parent
Never made it look like a normal thing.Reread my posts on this thread and ask yourself whether I'm defending them or not.You are trying to make single motherhood normal. Its not. I would not wish this arrangement on even my enemy. Stop making it look like it's a good thing.
Thanks for the example.if I was stabbed in my stomache and I turned out okay
and I told you it's okay to be stabbed in the stomache
it's the location and the character of where exactly you get stabbed in the stomache
would you believe me?
people end up okay after being stabbed but we still don't want people getting stabbed
it's not about the single individual, it's about the bigger picture
No you should start consuling service to stop separating families in a half because of feminist and democratic policies that are designed to destroy familiesI think we are super moms. they look at you like you have disease as if it the end if the world lol
I need to start a single
Mom somali support group.
F"cking BingoNo you should start consuling service to stop separating families in a half because of feminist and democratic policies that are designed to destroy families
I’m starting to think their toxic mentality is a cope for their many failures.
We don't attach stigma to divorce which is part of the reason why our divorce rates are so high and our entire community in total disarray, they regularly marry for the 3/4/5th time. which is part of the problemI’m starting to think their toxic mentality is a cope for their many failures.
@Inquisitive_ those aren’t practical solutions but a form of oppression. The Deen you advocate doesn’t condone oppressing others.
It would be better if young people were given the tools necessary to maintain a successful marriage. Problem solving skills, conflict-resolution skills, a strong support network, marriage counselling etc.
Divorce is halaal and serves its purpose just like marriage does. We need to change attitudes towards divorced/older women. At the time of the sahaba there was no stigma attached to divorce or age. People got divorced and remarried without any hassle.
Homemaker and home-wrecker aren’t the only 2 options. It takes 2 make or break a marriage. It’s essentially a contract not a life sentence. If it’s no longer working, there is a way out.