Why do other somali girls stare?

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  1. lalayariis

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    I’ve notice quite often when there is a group of Somali girls I don’t know they just look at me and stare, sometimes even glare for no reason. Happened at a Somali event I went to a few nights ago and they just kept eyeing me while I was with my friends for no reason. They’re college age might I add so not old, and not FOBS either. Why do people do this? In real life I’d hate to admit it but I’m “miskeen” so I don’t do anything to provoke this imo. This also used to happen back in high school, but I knew them and they were the mean girls who hated my friends so that was understandable, although again for no reason.
     
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  2. Desert Flower

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    It prob has to do with the fact that they don’t know you. But I tell myself if they’re staring, it’s because they like what they see. You’re probably very pretty as well.
     
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  3. Basra

    Basra Like Donald Trump, I like to be Spanked. Let Them Eat Cake VIP

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    Well they are turn off by your tom boyishniimo
     
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    Smh i know what youre talking about sxb, it used to make me uncomfortable as fk, now im used to it

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  5. lalayariis

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    I used to be a tomboy as a child but my Hooyo always found a way to deck me in dora without my consent. It was a fashion disaster when you hated pink but every item you owned was pink :drakewtf:

    Now I dress semi formal usually button ups, wide pants or work skirts when I heading to school with minimal makeup. My casual style though is soft feminine streetwear, so think cute but trendy.
     
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  6. Younes Osman

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    wa heble
     
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  7. Basra

    Basra Like Donald Trump, I like to be Spanked. Let Them Eat Cake VIP

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    So u do it for Hooyo? do u feel comfortable in them?
     
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    How do you know where I live? That's my local corner shop roadman
     
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  9. lalayariis

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    :mindblown:
     
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    Somalis in general have staring problem, I stare back and they accept me as one of their own. If you don’t stare back, you will keep getting stared at
     
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  11. Younes Osman

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    Do you know I remember back in 07 when I use to go to school and jump on a bus.
    A somalian bus driver would say I know you then I automatically knew he is one of Abbo's meffreesh buddies. But, obivioustly I knew all along that ninkan wa iska hadaliya.
     
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    Ok boomer
     
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    "Ha i eegin" :ileycry:
     
  15. Barwaaqoforsomalia

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    Maybe they are trying to do the silent assalamu alaykum but didn’t have enough courage to say it. At first they stare because they acknowledged you as a Somali and then you stare back with a silent smile nod or a silent assalamu alaykum and then they proceed to do the same. After that, every time you see them you do the same thing.
     
  16. SOULSEARCHING

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    I stare because I hardly see Somalis and I smile from a far(I get excited). If they are close I say Salam
     
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  17. astorecalledkmart

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    That awkward moment someone who has been staring at you smiles and starts speaking Amhara

    :reallymaury:
     
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  18. HanadR6

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    I am xaara and you?
     
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    Sorry, I don't know where the nearest toilet is lol
     
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  20. lalayariis

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    This is white lady from the UK was at the coffee shop I work at this morning. We talked about her accent fading and stuff like that, and then she straight up asked me do I eat injera.
     
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