AbdiFreedom
Staff Member
Oh so you're saying that clapped girls between 26 - 29 get slim pickings in the Somali community
Below average women have to be proactive and find someone when they are younger or work on themselves (not including job) as they get older (personality, smile, kind, fitness) to become average/high value. Many people don't change for the better though and think they deserve the best and stay at their level.
At what age are families supposed to start expressing interest? What about families that are cut off from the community?
If you're high value (or above average) you get high value or above average families and men coming at you as early as 18 and early 20s for marriage. I even know a Somali guy who married a Somali girl from high school years later. There's no way a high value or above average woman who is kind and nice and has a personality gets zero interest at that age, even if you're cut from the Somali community. People notice you at school, work, neighbourhood, social media. If you don't get that by your early 20s, you're definently no more than average.