Refute what? Your argument is based on fucking religion that I don't believe in. You're a child who don't have the intellectual capacity to understand basic human concepts.
You absolute xoolo, low IQ fagget. You want religious Muslims to 'stop judging' others who behave in a manner that unduly contradicts the beliefs and values of a Muslim: even though it's part of the religion of Islam to distinguish the right from wrong. You see you're foolishness now? It's similar to asking a Muslim to stop practicing an aspect of Islam. We cannot feel indifferent to behaviours and believes we know to be incorrect.
For example, the tremendous Scholar Qadi Iyad in his Shifaa’ writes:
“There is a unanimous consensus upon the kufr of he who does not regard the Jews, Christians or anyone who separates from the religion of the Muslims as a kafir; or he who hesitates in calling them kafir; or he who doubts in this matter."
Now when you say 'judge', do you mean slandering the person openly? Because this very rarely happens.
If you mean back chatting about the person, then this is haraam. Unless the person's actions is causing harm to the community as a whole, then this would go under the heading of 'Jarh wa ta'dil).
By 'judging', if you mean recognising the persons wrongdoings (without slandering them), then this is a must. It is incumbent to believe in the wrongdoing of the one who openly contradicts the beliefs and values of Islam.
Do you want Muslims to be 'accepting' of wrongdoings within their community? You must be in your own world you fucking xoolo. You still haven't answered my question regarding the disciplines that you're well-verses in. This guy is a joke.
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi