Exactly, and its a problem that many guys don't believe in love and simply marry because of religiosity, education or qabil. Its a problem caused by many guys jumping into marriage too early. The gaalo spend years looking for the right person.I don't know why the guys here are getting defensive. Hint, hint @The alchemist
The fact that we have too many Somali girls with blantant daddy issues shows there is a real issue in our community. Tbh, so do many of the guys, but it just manifests itself in a different way.
I hope the younger generations become much better fathers and I hope young women be extra cautious when it comes to the men they marry, even though many things are qadr and you have no way in predicting how a young childless man will behave in the future. But one thing i've noticed and you even pointed out is that the more in love a man is with you, the more he is much more likely to stick around unfortunately. The fact that your father married your mother simply due to loneliness says it all!