Some faraxs in their late 30s are fucking scumbags, they're relics of a bygone era who think chipping in with the odd bit of housework is akin to castration. I'm all for parent putting their wants/needs second in order to bring up their kids in a stable household, but at some point having these guys around does more harm than good wallahi.
I don't know why women in these situation continue having children with deadbeats like that, surely they can piece it together that the guy's a useless cūnt after the 2nd child? They're not completely blameless.
Imagine being a young impressionable girl and growing up around that shit, you'd think any guy who treated you with a modicum of respect and not like some Filipino housemaid was a complete fâggot, brutal wallahi lol
@Amina99
Its usually a problem with the older generation. They grew up in households in which their mothers were treated this way as well. Back home, men even going into the kitchen is seen as ceeb and this is something both men and women have internalized.
However, we can't keep soley pointing the finger at men. I've seen a lot of this and usually, its the man's mother to blame. She raised him as a little prince who has women doing absolutely everything for him. Even when some of these mothers are ill, they would rather force themselves to do everything for their sons rather than actually get him to help out. Hence, they grow up not having much compassion for women and think that even on the verge of severe illness these women have to do everything for them.
Therefore, you can't expect a man who grew up to have little empathy for his mother or sister to have empathy for a wife who isn't blood related. I wish it was easy to vet for this behavior.