What's the verdict on xalimos from the middle east

[Hybrid()]

How are they compared to the ones from back home ? Some of the stereotypes I heard about them are that they can be emotionally needy or they are freaky.
There's a family friend from Saudi Arabia and I like her personality. She's feminine, friendly and dresses more liberal. She showed me pics of her younger sisters in Saudi Arabia who are pretty and weren't wearing hijabs.

Middle eastern xalimos are most likely more educated and well off than those in somalia. What else do you guys know about them ?

 

[World]

Ain’t it against the law for women in Saudi Arabia to not wear the hijab?

 

[Hybrid()]

Ain’t it against the law for women in Saudi Arabia to not wear the hijab?

Saudi women can dress more liberal now and even back then, only the cabaaya was fully enforced on women.

 

[Angelina]

Influenced by Khaleeji culture. Strong father figures in their lives usually. You seem like the player type, so i'd suggest you leave them alone unless you're willing to behave like a traditional and respectful husband who asks for her hand in marriage, pay mehr and provide.

My overall advice: Leave them alone, in fact leave Somali sisters in general. You've done enough damage judging by your stories.

 

[Hybrid()]

Influenced by Khaleeji culture. Strong father figures in their lives usually. You seem like the player type, so i'd suggest you leave them alone unless you're willing to behave like a traditional and respectful husband who asks for her hand in marriage, pay mehr and provide.

My overall advice: Leave them alone, in fact leave Somali sisters in general. You've done enough damage judging by your stories.

Can majority of them speak Somali ? This Saudi xalimo can barely speak Somali although she spent a year in hargeisa.

 

[Kimk]

They have arab mentality…they expect the guy to take care of them while they sit in the house all day

 

[Angelina]

They have arab mentality…they expect the guy to take care of them while they sit in the house all day

And guess what? That is their God given rights.

 

[AdoonkaAlle]

Influenced by Khaleeji culture. Strong father figures in their lives usually. You seem like the player type, so i'd suggest you leave them alone unless you're willing to behave like a traditional and respectful husband who asks for her hand in marriage, pay mehr and provide.

My overall advice: Leave them alone, in fact leave Somali sisters in general. You've done enough damage judging by your stories.

He’s worse than ciyaal suuq waa gaal

May Allah keep away all Muslim women from him & expose his gaalnimo at each & every single turn he tries approaching them

Ameen thumma Ameen

 

[Angelina]

He’s worse than ciyaal suuq waa gaal

May Allah keep away all Muslim women from you & expose your gaalnimo at each & every single turn you try approaching them

Ameen thumma Ameen

May Allah keep gaals and even predatory Muslim men away from sisters.

Somali abos really need to start having more Ghayrah and start protecting women from rifrafs and qashin predators, some of the posters posts shocks me due to their immorality and then have the audacity to then try and get with decent sisters, probably to ruin their lives for the worst.

 

[Kimk]

And guess what? That is their God given rights.

I agree but they will be sorely disappointed in western raised Somali men who expect women to make their own money

 

[Peace&Love]

May Allah keep gaals and even predatory Muslim men away from sisters.

Somali abos really need to start having more Ghayrah and start protecting women from rifrafs and qashin predators, some of the posters posts shocks me due to their immorality and then have the audacity to then try and get with decent sisters, probably to ruin their lives for the worst.

There are many fathers that do a good job of letting their sons know. My father for example told me at a young age, you are 99% your mother and %1 me. He said he was just the address, your mother is the house. Basically stating women do not get the respect they deserve. Surprising thing is a lot guys swear they love their mother/sisters but their action towards women say otherwise.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

They have weird American accents

 

[Hybrid()]

They have arab mentality…they expect the guy to take care of them while they sit in the house all day

I don't mind being the sole provider for my family as long as my wife is a full time housewife and does a good job managing the house and kids. The thing is I heard from my hooyo that xalimo carbeed always want you to be around them and show them affection. How true is this stereotype ? Women in somalia don't require much attention from you as long you take good care of them financially.

 

[citrus_samurai]

Somalis from the Middle East are the best! Educated, on their deen, good personalities, cultural. I love em

He’s worse than ciyaal suuq waa gaal

May Allah keep away all Muslim women from him & expose his gaalnimo at each & every single turn he tries approaching them

Ameen thumma Ameen

Ameen

 

[Hybrid()]

He’s worse than ciyaal suuq waa gaal

May Allah keep away all Muslim women from him & expose his gaalnimo at each & every single turn he tries approaching them

Ameen thumma Ameen

I might not be religious but I have more somalilinimo than you hooyo mataalo. All my kids and grandkids are destined to be fluent in Somali and live in a Muslim country but you and your western Somali brethrens on the other hand will produce generations of cultureless gaals roaming in the west and can't speak a hint of Somali

 

[citrus_samurai]

I might not be religious but I have more somalilinimo than you hooyo mataalo. All my kids and grandkids are destined to be fluent in Somali, and live in a Muslim country but you and your western Somali brethrens on the other hand will be produce generations of cultureless gaals roaming in the west and can't speak a hint of Somali

Are you a Muslim? Judging from what the others are saying in this thread I’m not really sure why you’d be interested in a traditional Muslim Somali woman?

 

[Hybrid()]

Are you a Muslim? Judging from what the others are saying in this thread I’m not really sure why you’d be interested in a traditional Muslim Somali woman?

Yeah I'm culturally Muslim, I just ain't religious but that can change

 

[citrus_samurai]

Yeah I'm culturally Muslim, I just ain't religious but that can change

Start practicing your religion… It’s for your own good. Make that change now for your soul. Good women for good men, remember that

 

[AdoonkaAlle]

May Allah keep gaals and even predatory Muslim men away from sisters.

Somali abos really need to start having more Ghayrah and start protecting women from rifrafs and qashin predators, some of the posters posts shocks me due to their immorality and then have the audacity to then try and get with decent sisters, probably to ruin their lives for the worst.

I agree but unfortunately due to social changes that we face esp in the west it’s becoming challenging to enforce this.

Even when abos fail their duty it’s incumbent on sisters to act responsibly & fulfil what’s expected of them deen wise. As at the end of the day we’re held responsible for our own actions

 

[AdoonkaAlle]

I might not be religious but I have more somalilinimo than you hooyo mataalo. All my kids and grandkids are destined to be fluent in Somali and live in a Muslim country but you and your western Somali brethrens on the other hand will produce generations of cultureless gaals roaming in the west and can't speak a hint of Somali

Diinta is part of our somalinimo that you claim you value. Suuasha waa how can you value somalinimo when you discard one of the most important aspects of it ?

Our diinta influences our somalinimo everything from our cuunto to dhaqan so how can you value it more than me when you threw away diinta ?