Whats the point of going after girls in the diaspora?

[TekNiKo]

i highly suggest so, I am very happy with wifey who makes me very glad I married back home

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

i highly suggest so, I am very happy with wifey who makes me very glad I married back home

Tell me more, me and @sophisticate are planning to relocate

 

[World]

Nigga is going for girls in Africa because they’re the only Somali girls that reply to his DMs

 

[Strike6times]

Nigga is going for girls in Africa because they’re the only Somali girls that reply to his DMs

this nigga needs to learn how to talk to females

 

[Gambar]

My dad used to always say. If a woman gives you kids, then you good. After that she can go who cares. Give me 3 kids and we good

You are truly something.

 

[Jaydaan]

You are truly something.

thanks....appreciate that

 

[butANumba]

Where is this? USA or UK.

yes usa

 

[Addislad]

yes usa

Bro fobs back home are uncivilized. Better stick with what you know

 

[Helios]

Step your game up and you'll be like me one day akhi View attachment 103252View attachment 103254View attachment 103255

 

[hussein]

Bro fobs back home are uncivilized. Better stick with what you know

id rather have me a fob than a xalimo in the west who drinks and open her legs for anyone

 

[Strike6times]

id rather have me a fob than a xalimo in the west who drinks and open her legs for anyone

you attract what you are akh

 

[Jiron]

The grass isn't always greener on the other side, there are good and bad people everywhere. There so many decent, beautiful, resourceful sisters in the west.

 

[hussein]

you attract what you are akh

My fob days are long gone sxb .

 

[Inquisitive_]

You guys always say, "if you go for the girls abroad then whos gonna marry the ones in the diaspora? You can't about ajanabis marrying them" Oh my god I honestly don't even care anymore. The girls here act like they're the shit. They all use this phrase, "if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." Whenever I send them a message trying to speak to them they'll just ghost me after a little conversation. I gave up and tried talking to the Somali girls in Nairobi and areas around Kenya. They all seem very honest and don't bullshit around. They're definitely marriage material which is why I'll be going to Kenya to marry one there. f*ck the diaspora girls wearing pounds of make up thinking they're the shit. You can't use the career excuse and call me a bum because I'm a software engineer.

You don't seem to realize the blessings right now mate, but you will as you get older and more experienced.

You have a lot of internal issues you need to resolve first, messaging a girl out of the blue is a beta move, it's what desperate male's with low value do and that's what she assumes of you.

Your worth a lot more then she is in the grand scheme of things and you only get better with age, so why do you debase yourself like that by playing all your cards for nothing?

Your a software engineer for heaven sake, your in the top 10 fields, if you have the spiritual side and physical side in order your already top 10%, and in the Somali community your in the top 5%.

There is no need for you to be chasing these dead women and debase yourself, NEVER EVER flirt with a female you haven't even assessed first as being fit for purpose.

It's a sign your a man of low standards, you don't even know her character, personality or how she is with her family etc. so why on earth are you offering yourself to her so cheaply and give her power over you?

Instead you should be qualifying her first to see if she meets all your criteria! which is the high standard approach and when you do this she will begin to flirt with you herself midway through your assessment of her.

NEVER ever play you cards or approach a female COLD including on social media unless she gives you clear cut signals, and even then you QUALIFY her first and YOU NEVER FLIRT with her before this.

To be good at this doesn't even require experience, it requires self-respect and self-respect only comes when you put in the work physically (training), psychologically (reading) and spiritually (religiosity).

 

[JJ300]

First rule of dating. Know your market and what sells. Right now good smart somalis aint selling. Either get more ignorant (ie. Drug dealer/ loser) or get non-somali. Even if you have diamonds mate if the market dont want them nothing can happen. Give them what they want.

 

[Xasusi]

Just be yourself bro.

 

[purple haze]

I can't wait to read all the case studies after feminism runs its course 20 years from now.

20 ? It's on its last legs 10 tops this decade will see so many movements gone with the wind but new ones will arise that will probably be worst

 

[butANumba]

You don't seem to realize the blessings right now mate, but you will as you get older and more experienced.

You have a lot of internal issues you need to resolve first, messaging a girl out of the blue is a beta move, it's what desperate male's with low value do and that's what she assumes of you.

Your worth a lot more then she is in the grand scheme of things and you only get better with age, so why do you debase yourself like that by playing all your cards for nothing?

Your a software engineer for heaven sake, your in the top 10 fields, if you have the spiritual side and physical side in order your already top 10%, and in the Somali community your in the top 5%.

There is no need for you to be chasing these dead women and debase yourself, NEVER EVER flirt with a female you haven't even assessed first as being fit for purpose.

It's a sign your a man of low standards, you don't even know her character, personality or how she is with her family etc. so why on earth are you offering yourself to her so cheaply and give her power over you?

Instead you should be qualifying her first to see if she meets all your criteria! which is the high standard approach and when you do this she will begin to flirt with you herself midway through your assessment of her.

NEVER ever play you cards or approach a female COLD including on social media unless she gives you clear cut signals, and even then you QUALIFY her first and YOU NEVER FLIRT with her before this.

To be good at this doesn't even require experience, it requires self-respect and self-respect only comes when you put in the work physically (training), psychologically (reading) and spiritually (religiosity).

I live in a cadaan state dude. I have to text these chicks because looking at their photos,posts and who they're friends with only takes me so far. If I was seeing them in real life, I'd know about their situation including family relationships and what not.

 

[Shmurda]

i highly suggest so, I am very happy with wifey who makes me very glad I married back home

U have a shordy yet you tried linking luxys on new years ur foul cro

 

[lalayariis]

All the Somali dudes my age are with cadaans and ajnabis atm. I rarely see somali couples under 21