What's so special about having a significant other?

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Some people are lucky enough to develop a form of love that is stronger, although maybe not as passionate.

I honestly just see love as a bonus at point. Some people find that with someone, others don't. I personally value things like respect, compromise etc way more in a relationship nowdays. Love can come afterward

Are you single and can I take you out on a date sxb stop speaking facts, you gonna make me switch teams.

OOOOOOOOOOOH, Marone! You've just sent my homophobia into overdrive loool

 

[Angelina]

Their little quirks start to piss u off after a while. th novelty of everything wears off. I dont rly believe in love anyway tbh. I believe real love is only in jannah.

We know real love exists as the Prophet ﷺ loved Khadijah to such an extent he'd send gifts to her friends out of honor of her memory. He also loved Aisha and when people asked him who he loved, he'd say her.

Honestly, we have far too many examples of worldy love for you to say that love only exists in Jannah.

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

Their little quirks start to piss u off after a while. th novelty of everything wears off. I dont rly believe in love anyway tbh. I believe real love is only in jannah.

Have you experienced it before? Because trust me, you'd be singing a different tune if you had.
That's fine sxb, it's not be your thing, but I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss it. Actual wars have been fought over love lol

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[Angelina]

I honestly just see love as a bonus at point. Some people find that with someone, others don't. I personally value things like respect, compromise etc way more in a relationship nowdays. Love can come afterward

OOOOOOOOOOOH, Marone! You've just sent my homophobia into overdrive loool

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I think its just important to marry someone who you think has the qualities you believe you can fall in love with down the line after marriage. Its hard to fall in love before when you're trying to keep the courting stage as halal as possible.

 

[Angelina]

Have you experienced it before? Because trust me, you'd be singing a different tune if you had.
That's fine sxb, it's not be your thing, but I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss it. Actual wars have been fought over love lol

Loool, you're talking to someone who has an inability to love family members. Poor guy, I doubt he ever can.

 

[TekNiKo]

Do you love your mum?

Define love? I dont think felial piety can be considered the same as romantic love. One has religious duties to enquire and thats about it, nothing special really. Unlike these men here though I am a firm believer in love and a loveless marriage is a torturous experience. I dont know how they do it

 

[Kool-Aid]

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."

I'm trying to get myself to this level! Might never make it though!

 

[Angelina]

Define love? I dont think felial piety can be considered the same as romantic love. One has religious duties to enquire and thats about it, nothing special really. Unlike these men here though I am a firm believer in love and a loveless marriage is a torturous experience. I dont know how they do it

There are different types of love. Example, I deeply love my parents. My mum is my everything. I'm not talking about religious duties, because we have religious dutie towards different people.

 

[anonimo]

I think its just important to marry someone who you think has the qualities you believe you can fall in love with down the line after marriage. Its hard to fall in love before when you're trying to keep the courting stage as halal as possible.

Proper Halal courtship is like playing Russian roulette with your heart. Door in the living room open, Muhrams sitting in the next room etc.

Come to think of it, so are most courtships. Most people let you see what they want you to see.

 

[Amk]

Have you experienced it before? Because trust me, you'd be singing a different tune if you had.
That's fine sxb, it's not be your thing, but I wouldn't be so quick to dismiss it. Actual wars have been fought over love lol

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I tried to love many times but i cant get myself to do it. I dont think Allah created me like a person who could love tbh

 

[TekNiKo]

There are different types of love. Example, I deeply love my parents. My mum is my everything. I'm not talking about religious duties, because we have religious dutie towards different people.

There are different types of love. Example, I deeply love my parents. My mum is my everything. I'm not talking about religious duties, because we have religious dutie towards different people.

Heheh, your a momma girl eh? Well bless your heart not all Somalis were blessed with Edo Habibo squeezing their cheeks and hugging them

 

[The alchemist]

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."

I'm trying to get myself to this level! Might never make it though!

Man brings Heat quotes into the conversation.

Movie quotes are so convenient yet so impractical.

 

[Angelina]

Heheh, your a momma girl eh? Well bless your heart not all Somalis were blessed with Edo Habibo squeezing their cheeks and hugging them

I love my abo as well.

 

[Kool-Aid]

Man brings Heat quotes into the conversation.

Movie quotes are so convenient yet so impractical.

Hey, it's one of my most favourite movies!

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

I think its just important to marry someone who you think has the qualities you believe you can fall in love with down the line after marriage. Its hard to fall in love before when you're trying to keep the courting stage as halal as possible.

That's 100% the mature and healthy way to go about it. Basing your entire relationship solely on love, which let's face it is just lust half the time, is a recipe for disater.

Define love? I dont think felial piety can be considered the same as romantic love. One has religious duties to enquire and thats about it, nothing special really. Unlike these men here though I am a firm believer in love and a loveless marriage is a torturous experience. I dont know how they do it

I think there's like 6 different types of love according to the Greeks. What most people consider romantic "love" in the West is a mixture of Eros and Pragma. Parental love is completely different.

I tried to love many times but i cant get myself to do it. I dont think Allah created me like a person who could love tbh

I think you might benefit from some therapy before completely giving up on the idea of love. But you might be one of the few people that it just don't experience it

 

[TekNiKo]

I love my abo as well.

I think me and @Amk maybe opposites. He is highly emotionally unavailable and doesnt love while I fall in love so deep, they would call you a simp and a cuck though if you describe your feelings. I love medievil movies where Prince Charming picks up his princess, where art thou chivalry?

 

[empressjamila]

No shade but I would never wanna marry a nigga like some of y’all that think love is meaningless and I don’t think most women would

I want a super affectionate and loving guy. Seems to be kind of rare among Somali men tho…

 

[Amk]

I think me and @Amk maybe opposites. He is highly emotionally unavailable and doesnt love while I fall in love so deep, they would call you a simp and a cuck though if you describe your feelings. I love medievil movies where Prince Charming picks up his princess, where art thou chivalry?

She aint worth saving most of the time. She dumb and spoilt princess, only thing she got is looks, the bruddas wasting his time on a women who wont give him anything

 

[Amk]

No shade but I would never wanna marry a nigga like some of y’all that think love is meaningless and I don’t think most women would

I want a super affectionate and loving guy. Seems to be kind of rare among Somali men tho…

Who sed I cant pretend to be affectionate?
I dont think u understand the level of my deception

 

[anonimo]

No shade but I would never wanna marry a nigga like some of y’all that think love is meaningless

I want a super affectionate and loving guy. Seems to be kind of rare among Somali men tho…

In this thread, your last sentence is proved wrong huuno. A lot of the guys are dishing out the truth but have acknowledged a capability to love, except AMK.

Love is real but not when it is mixed up with lust.