Where do we disagree? Do you disagree that a Muslim unwilling to follow the commandments of their religion is a testament of their poor character? If someone won't even honor the religion they subscribe to, what will make them honor a relationship with someone? I personally stay away from bad Muslim girls with no hijab as i believe that to be evident of their nature.
Why are you acting as though you never sin and don't have any struggles?
The problem with a lot of men, is that they are very forgiving of their sinful short coming, yet do not shy away from harshly condemning women who have their own shortcomings.
Just a side note: a is a woman who sleeps around and Islamically accusing or insinuating that a woman sleeps around or is loose with men is a major sin. Slandering a Muslim woman, hijabi or not, is not acceptable.
Your lose tongue is definitely evident of your bad nature, I can easily argue.