To the guys here, how do you stop your woman from complaining?

[Karim]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom, we live in an age were all the materials and information of how to achieve this is out there.

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing this!

You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

Wow! Great post.

 

[Dino]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom, we live in an age were all the materials and information of how to achieve this is out there.

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing this!

You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

I have already started going to the gym. It’s more stress relief and venting anger than physique building but I get your point.

Interesting points raised by everyone here. The thing is on the surface level everything is fine. Financially stable, beautiful baby, nice house everything a woman needs materially. But instead of being grateful, she wants to whinge about even the tiniest thing. Oh I haven’t had much sleep last night and the baby has been awake all night,

I am like I haven’t slept either and I am about to a 10 hour shift. But it is what it is. When I tell her that look for the positive things and have good attitude, waba walanaysa. What in the world?

 

[Samaalic Era]

I have already started going to the gym. It’s more stress relief and venting anger than physique building but I get your point.

Interesting points raised by everyone here. The thing is on the surface level everything is fine. Financially stable, beautiful baby, nice house everything a woman needs materially. But instead of being grateful, she wants to whinge about even the tiniest thing. Oh I haven’t had much sleep last night and the baby has been awake all night,

I am like I haven’t slept either and I am about to a 10 hour shift. But it is what it is. When I tell her that look for the positive things and have good attitude, waba walanaysa. What in the world?

When you want to address that don't say it that blunt way. When are people are not in their right mind you have to show them rather than telling them.

You have to use wisdom when dealing with women. There are better ways to get your point across walal

 

[VixR]

I have already started going to the gym. It’s more stress relief and venting anger than physique building but I get your point.

Interesting points raised by everyone here. The thing is on the surface level everything is fine. Financially stable, beautiful baby, nice house everything a woman needs materially. But instead of being grateful, she wants to whinge about even the tiniest thing. Oh I haven’t had much sleep last night and the baby has been awake all night,

I am like I haven’t slept either and I am about to a 10 hour shift. But it is what it is. When I tell her that look for the positive things and have good attitude, waba walanaysa. What in the world?

You may be up too, but a baby isn’t literally sucking all the energy out of you at the same time. You need to have her pump, and let her catch up on sleep. Take the baby away from her.

 

[Lum]

Fake Mexican Wahabi Muslim

This does not exist.

 

[Lum]

Have you ever read Kitab At-Tawheed by Sheikh Wahhab?

Salafiyyah and ISIS are different things. Ninety percent (if not more) of the people who talk about "Wahhabism" have never actually read any of the books by Sheikh Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahhab.

Doubt he read the book. Most of them who speak ill of this great scholar have been decieved.

 

[VixR]

I have already started going to the gym. It’s more stress relief and venting anger than physique building but I get your point.

Interesting points raised by everyone here. The thing is on the surface level everything is fine. Financially stable, beautiful baby, nice house everything a woman needs materially. But instead of being grateful, she wants to whinge about even the tiniest thing. Oh I haven’t had much sleep last night and the baby has been awake all night,

I am like I haven’t slept either and I am about to a 10 hour shift. But it is what it is. When I tell her that look for the positive things and have good attitude, waba walanaysa. What in the world?

Don’t follow @Inquisitive_ ’s advice. It’s badly given. To be aloof, absent or pretend you are seeking another wife in a time like this. That’s a good way to damage your still new marriage irreparably when she is sleepless with your own child.

Also, there’s no reason you should be up too in the night, if you have work the next day. You have to find a way to get your sleep, and you have to find a way for her to find relief. She is with it 24/7.

 

[Mimir]

If there isnt any deeper underlying issue, Tell her you find it really hard to manage her moods therefore she has to start managing her own moods. You will help around the house but from now on you will be solely responsible for making yourself happy and once you’re happy you can then try to help her.

Did the name change change your personality as well?

 

[Mimir]

Never thought I would the see the day

 

[Mimir]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom, we live in an age were all the materials and information of how to achieve this is out there.

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing this!

You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

This post is gold sxb. The same with all your other posts except for the one where you called me merciless for having an inverse triangular face

 

[Dino]

You may be up too, but a baby isn’t literally sucking all the energy out of you at the same time. You need to have her pump, and let her catch up on sleep. Take the baby away from her.

i do that whenever i can. she is no longer breat feeding. the baby takes the bottle now.

listen people can have bad days. its not that. its the constant complaining that is tiring. it is soul sucking.

whenever i have buisness trips i look forward to it. Coz when i finish the job i come home and its quiet and i dont have to listen to someone moaning about the simplest stuff.

Shit man its sad. I gotta do something about this

 

[Basra]

i do that whenever i can. she is no longer breat feeding. the baby takes the bottle now.

listen people can have bad days. its not that. its the constant complaining that is tiring. it is soul sucking.

Eeedo, that is normal.


Advice: Having a baby is traumatic. Help around home. Grab the baby away from her and tell her go have a nap.

On the weekend, take the baby to your mother, for baby sitting, and take her out for a date in town. A good dinner, well lit candle restaurant will do the trick. You have to look her in the eyes, and say--- I hear you, I see you, You matter to me!

Qalaaas! She will ignore u for a month and be busy as a mom! lol

 

[Mimir]

When you want to address that don't say it that blunt way. When are people are not in their right mind you have to show them rather than telling them.

You have to use wisdom when dealing with women. There are better ways to get your point across walal

@Dino samaalic is right. Women tend to lose logic when they're emotional.

I have already started going to the gym. It’s more stress relief and venting anger than physique building but I get your point.

Interesting points raised by everyone here. The thing is on the surface level everything is fine. Financially stable, beautiful baby, nice house everything a woman needs materially. But instead of being grateful, she wants to whinge about even the tiniest thing. Oh I haven’t had much sleep last night and the baby has been awake all night,

I am like I haven’t slept either and I am about to a 10 hour shift. But it is what it is. When I tell her that look for the positive things and have good attitude, waba walanaysa. What in the world?

So you mean to tell me that she's sitting in the house all day and expects you to handle the baby right after you come from work? Saaxib from the info you gave us,this girl is slacking on her duty as a wife and a mother.

 

[AhmedSmelly]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

You put a finger up her bum. Its called negative reinforcement. She will get the hint by the end of the day.

Divorce her, if there is no change. No one wants a screaming parrot, with a finger up her bum as a wife. Your children wont appreciate it, nor your second wife. You deserve happiness and a patient person as a life partner.

 

[Mimir]

@Dino divorce should be the last option in your mind

 

[Basra]

You put a finger up her bum. Its called negative reinforcement. She will get the hint by the end of the day.

Divorce her, if there is no change. No one wants a screaming parrot, with a finger up her bum as a wife. Your children wont appreciate it, nor your second wife. You deserve happiness and a patient person as a life partner.

Lose weight

 

[B-is-the-code]

I did notice one connection Somali men spoiled and treated like a baby by their mothers feel like a relationship or a female is only there to fulfill his needs and then they cry and wonder why these women go to real jareeer ni99as.

They said "habar fadhido lagdan la fudud"....do you even have a girl? You talking like a playa and dissing this man? You dont have experience in life sxb dont hide it, a true playa like me can see thru your text...maybe you should go and visit the doctor for your identity crisis. To me a jiljileec guy is a nikka like you who think he is arab or caribbian...f*ck you and f*ck yah whole tribe who who produced you shit foqol shit

 

[Saredo]

@Dino samaalic is right. Women tend to lose logic when they're emotional.

So you mean to tell me that she's sitting in the house all day and expects you to handle the baby right after you come from work? Saaxib from the info you gave us,this girl is slacking on her duty as a wife and a mother.

i think we need to be more respectful when we’re talking about his wife.

@Dino What about Postpartum depression ? maybe that’s your wife’s case but she doesn’t know it yet.

 

[B-is-the-code]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom, we live in an age were all the materials and information of how to achieve this is out there.

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing this!

You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

@CaliTedesse Learn from this guy. Doqon yohow. This is the definition of real man with life/women experience...not you arab/caribbian wanna be

 

[AhmedSmelly]

Lose weight

Were you angry at my vulgar wording or having a second wife? Second question, did you tell me to lose weight as a psychological projection of your own weight insecurity.
Answer honestly, my basra, my basta, the nutrition of my bum.