To the guys here, how do you stop your woman from complaining?

[TekNiKo]

It seems like your wife doesnt love you, my wife rarely complains unless I fucked up big time. Love conquers all

 

[Mckenzie]

Why stay late at work and not go to the Gym instead and build your physique thereby raising your sexual market value?

The effect this will have on her psychologically alone will terrify her into thinking she is about to loose you to another female.

This insecurity alone will shift the momentum of the relationship back in your favour, the complaining stops and the pampering begins.

The whole psychology behind incessant complaints is WANING interest levels in your partner, something about you has changed!

You are the cause of this and it's a common thing with males to abandon what got her hooked in the first place, the incessant complaints are just her way of communicating this to you!

The number 1 relationship rule is to stay focused on your purpose in life whatever it is, this of course requires you to have one in the first place because without this you are nothing.

That purpose should ALWAYS come before your woman, because if it doesn't! she becomes the object of your purpose and focus, which of course is biologically repulsive to her because she wants to board your train (instead of you boarding hers)

You suck all the love, passion and excitement from the relationship when you do this, and you don't even realise this until the entire marriage goes up in smoke.

My sincere advice to you is to take heed through actions, hit the gym, improve upon other aspects in your life especially as it relates to the bedroom, we live in an age were all the materials and information of how to achieve this is out there.

Add to your spiritual growth, start dressing better and improving your style/appearance while of course remaining unfazed at all times never verbalizing this!

You will shake her to the core with this and all the incessant complaints will morph into insecurity, servitude and devotion to the one she fears to loose, win/win.

Even Umar RA had a wife that shouted at him and he was the 2nd khalifah. It's in their nature, i'd be more concerned about a girl who don't give me stress, maxay qarinaysa balaayadu if she wants to vent and complain, pretend to be all ears and be a good liar. Better yet, find a girl who complains about the right things, positive reinforcement.

 

[Omar del Sur]

My nigga @Omar del Sur finishes after 5 seconds then divorces his wife for complaining about it. Silly wetback sheikh kkkkkkkkk

Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr:

The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Whoever has the following four (characteristics) will be a pure hypocrite and whoever has one of the following four characteristics will have one characteristic of hypocrisy unless and until he gives it up.

1. Whenever he is entrusted, he betrays.

2. Whenever he speaks, he tells a lie.

3. Whenever he makes a covenant, he proves treacherous.

4. Whenever he quarrels, he behaves in a very imprudent, evil and insulting manner."

https://sunnah.com/bukhari/2/27

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Two matters are signs of disbelief on the part of those who indulge in them: Defaming and speaking evil of a person's lineage, and wailing over the dead."

[Muslim].

https://sunnah.com/riyadussaliheen/18/68

 

[Zakeriya]

How else ?

 

[Omar del Sur]

@CaliTedesse You might think racism is a joke but you won't see it that way on the Day of Judgement. Islamically, we are weighed by taqwa and coming from a Muslim background means nothing if you lack taqwa.

"Racism is a fatal disease and a very dangerous matter. Whenever it spreads in the community, it divides them into groups and parties. The racists act according to their emotions rather than their minds. Islam totally disapproves of this and strongly condemns it.

Islam teaches us that the origin of all mankind is one; all of them belong to Adam and Adam was created from dust. Allah Says (what means): {O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.} [Quran 49:13]

Allah made different groups and tribes only to allow them to know one another, and not to stimulate boasting or fighting between them. The difference of languages, colors, nationalities and wealth are not criteria to boast and show off. Indeed, the supremacy and superiority are based only on piety (Taqwa, God fearing) and this is something between Allah and his slaves and no one knows its extent except Allah Alone. The location of piety is the person's heart and Allah Alone knows what the hearts conceal. Allah Says (what means): {…then it is truly from the piety of the heart.} [Quran 22:32]

The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “The piety is here, (and while saying so), he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim to look down upon his Muslim brother. All things of a Muslim are inviolable from his brother in faith, his blood, his wealth and his honor (should be respected)." [Muslim]

In fact, the differences of languages and colors are among the wonderful signs of Allah that proves His Might and Greatness. The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said in his last sermon: “There is no preference of an Arab over a Non-Arab, or a white over a black, or a black over a white, except by the (degree) of piety.” [Ahmad]

In another Hadeeth the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said about racism: “Leave it (that call) as it is a detestable thing.” [Reported by Imaam al-Bukhari]

Therefore, racism is totally rejected by Islamic teachings. Muslim scholars and reformers have always denounced it. It has always been the weapon of foolish and arrogant people; by using these hateful feelings they always cause much harm to mankind as a whole.

Actually, the founder of racism is Iblees (Satan) who objected to Allah's Order when ordered him to prostate to Adam. He claimed: {[Satan] said, "I am better than him. You created me from fire and created him from clay."} [Quran 7:12]

So, Allah punished Satan by driving him away from His Mercy and Blessings. Therefore, whoever is affected by this disease should fear Allah and try his best to get rid of it, seeking refuge with Allah.

The best way that could help one to get rid of this disease is to ponder over the Quran and Sunnah, and to read the biography of the companions of the Prophet

.

Allah knows best."

https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/86205/how-to-get-rid-of-racism

 

[Omar del Sur]

I can see a lot of people here seem to take their own alleged religion as a joke.

 

[Zakeriya]

@CaliTedesse You might think racism is a joke but you won't see it that way on the Day of Judgement. Islamically, we are weighed by taqwa and coming from a Muslim background means nothing if you lack taqwa.

"Racism is a fatal disease and a very dangerous matter. Whenever it spreads in the community, it divides them into groups and parties. The racists act according to their emotions rather than their minds. Islam totally disapproves of this and strongly condemns it.

Islam teaches us that the origin of all mankind is one; all of them belong to Adam and Adam was created from dust. Allah Says (what means): {O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.} [Quran 49:13]

Allah made different groups and tribes only to allow them to know one another, and not to stimulate boasting or fighting between them. The difference of languages, colors, nationalities and wealth are not criteria to boast and show off. Indeed, the supremacy and superiority are based only on piety (Taqwa, God fearing) and this is something between Allah and his slaves and no one knows its extent except Allah Alone. The location of piety is the person's heart and Allah Alone knows what the hearts conceal. Allah Says (what means): {…then it is truly from the piety of the heart.} [Quran 22:32]

The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “The piety is here, (and while saying so), he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim to look down upon his Muslim brother. All things of a Muslim are inviolable from his brother in faith, his blood, his wealth and his honor (should be respected)." [Muslim]

In fact, the differences of languages and colors are among the wonderful signs of Allah that proves His Might and Greatness. The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said in his last sermon: “There is no preference of an Arab over a Non-Arab, or a white over a black, or a black over a white, except by the (degree) of piety.” [Ahmad]

In another Hadeeth the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said about racism: “Leave it (that call) as it is a detestable thing.” [Reported by Imaam al-Bukhari]

Therefore, racism is totally rejected by Islamic teachings. Muslim scholars and reformers have always denounced it. It has always been the weapon of foolish and arrogant people; by using these hateful feelings they always cause much harm to mankind as a whole.

Actually, the founder of racism is Iblees (Satan) who objected to Allah's Order when ordered him to prostate to Adam. He claimed: {[Satan] said, "I am better than him. You created me from fire and created him from clay."} [Quran 7:12]

So, Allah punished Satan by driving him away from His Mercy and Blessings. Therefore, whoever is affected by this disease should fear Allah and try his best to get rid of it, seeking refuge with Allah.

The best way that could help one to get rid of this disease is to ponder over the Quran and Sunnah, and to read the biography of the companions of the Prophet

.

Allah knows best."

https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/86205/how-to-get-rid-of-racism

I don’t think you’ve met an Arab. Btw according to sharia all Muslims are welcome in a Muslim land but try walking through Saudi Arabia without being asked for a passport. Ikama ikama ikama loooool hairy back having animals. How did our religion come down to such a disgusting people.

 

[Guled111]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

Sxb tell us what she is complaining about and we can move it from here.

 

[Omar del Sur]

I don’t think you’ve met an Arab. Btw according to sharia all Muslims are welcome in a Muslim land but try walking through Saudi Arabia without being asked for a passport. Ikama ikama ikama loooool hairy back having animals. How did our religion come down to such a disgusting people.

So Arabs are animals according to you?
Meanwhile the mosque I go to is mostly Arab and I've never seen the Arab Muslims I know talk in such a way.

You have no business saying degrading things about Arabs.

 

[Noobmaster699]

Taking another girl to another date.

 

[Zakeriya]

So Arabs are animals according to you?
Meanwhile the mosque I go to is mostly Arab and I've never seen the Arab Muslims I know talk in such a way.

Because you are not in their country. My siblings grew up there. They are the worst of the worst. You can literally be born there and they will deport you. They’re a disease, they act maskiin when they aren’t in their country.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Because you are not in their country. My siblings grew up there. They are the worst of the worst. You can literally be born there and they will deport you. They’re a disease, they act maskiin when they aren’t in their country.

You have no business referring to Arabs in such a way. There is no justification Islamically for you to call Arabs animals.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Because you are not in their country. My siblings grew up there. They are the worst of the worst. You can literally be born there and they will deport you. They’re a disease, they act maskiin when they aren’t in their country.

also even if it is true that you can be deported so easily... who does that reflect? a government. so if a government does something does that justify you insulting hundreds of millions of people?

there is no justification

 

[Zakeriya]

You have no business referring to Arabs in such a way. There is no justification Islamically for you to call Arabs animals.

If Arabs acted like Muslims their countries wouldn’t be what they are. Complete trash, biggest wealth disparity in the world and racist. Hell Arabs had a larger slave trade than whites, Arabs have slaves today. Is that allowed in Islam?

 

[Zakeriya]

also even if it is true that you can be deported so easily... who does that reflect? a government. so if a government does something does that justify you insulting hundreds of millions of people?

there is no justification

The government they support and back, a lying wahhabi terror organization that preaches extremist Islam while committing genocide in Yemen, ignoring Palestine and declaring that Israel has the right to exist. Where do you think the extremist sheikhs in Somalia get trained? By those hypocrites. Spare me arab culture, we had women flying while they are just letting them drive. Our culture has always been superior

 

[Omar del Sur]

The government they support and back, a lying wahhabi terror organization that preaches extremist Islam while committing genocide in Yemen, ignoring Palestine and declaring that Israel has the right to exist. Where do you think the extremist sheikhs in Somalia get trained? By those hypocrites. Spare me arab culture, we had women flying while they are just letting them drive. Our culture has always been superior

Have you ever read Kitab At-Tawheed by Sheikh Wahhab?

Salafiyyah and ISIS are different things. Ninety percent (if not more) of the people who talk about "Wahhabism" have never actually read any of the books by Sheikh Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahhab.

 

[Omar del Sur]

 

[Omar del Sur]

also I go to a Yemeni masjid and I live in an area with a ton of Yemenis and pretty much all the Yemenis I know are against the Houthis.... the only people I hear supporting the Houthis are people who aren't actually Yemeni

 

[Zakeriya]

• Have you ever read Kitab At-Tawheed by Sheikh Wahhab?

Salafiyyah and ISIS are different things. Ninety percent (if not more) of the people who talk about "Wahhabism" have never actually read any of the books by Sheikh Muhammad ibn Abdul Wahhab.

The house of saud was trash long before ISIS. And inshallah wahhab and his Saudi allies are burning in jahanem for their actions. Islam was a shining gem of forward thinking before those animals. Now stop deflecting and trying to move the goal post. What are Wahhabis today? What has their influence caused besides misery? We accepted Islam before these creatures took over now you want to conflate our religion with them?

 

[Zakeriya]

also I go to a Yemeni masjid and I live in an area with a ton of Yemenis and pretty much all the Yemenis I know are against the Houthis.... the only people I hear supporting the Houthis are people who aren't actually Yemeni

You’re supporting literal genocide. A blockade that’s caused mass starvation and attacking hospitals for who? Jew loving Saudis?