To the guys here, how do you stop your woman from complaining?

[Dino]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

 

[Muji]

If there isnt any deeper underlying issue, Tell her you find it really hard to manage her moods therefore she has to start managing her own moods. You will help around the house but from now on you will be solely responsible for making yourself happy and once you’re happy you can then try to help her.

 

[Xasusi]

You are so stupid.

Let her complain but dont listen. Just pretend like youre listening. Every man has realised this with time. She complains because youre a simp. Be masculine and she will respond. You are the husband, not the father.

 

[Samira]

Miskiin. All this time she has been engaging in mental warfare with you, the purpose of which is to break down your psyche and induce as a consequence, the pure exhilaration of subordination and thereby momentarily while away the boredom and drudgery of the so-called "married" "life" (which is in reality, the consummation of death.) Instead of fighting back in all the stratagems of insanity and inkaar, so that you too may enjoy the sweetness of breaking the will of another, you have instead opted to complain on an internet forum, proving that she is your psychic superior.

Not a good look bro

 

[Luciddreamer]

How about talking directly to her about the real issue instead of beating around the bush.

Seems like youre afraid of confrontation.

 

[Saredo]

You are so stupid.

Let her complain but dont listen. Just pretend like youre listening. Every man has realised this with time. She complains because youre a simp. Be masculine and she will respond. You are the husband, not the father.

Only immature men. Mariage is also about communicating and understanding what the other person wants/needs so you can try to make each other happy. It's a partnership. He has to listen if he wants to find a solution.

 

[Abdi Caato]

Sxb you are a maskiin walle, "positive reinforcement" kulahaa

If you have already spoken to her about her constant complaining yet she is persisting, you must give her the silent treatment

Women want attention so she will not be able to tolerate this sxb

 

[Siddhartha]

if your not happy divorce her, lifes too short to spend it with people who make you miserable

 

[Omar del Sur]

It's very simple. Don't fight with her, don't engage with her games. Marry another woman.

 

[CaliTedesse]

good sex akhi, you are not hitting the right spots

 

[Xaruun]

Miskiin. All this time she has been engaging in mental warfare with you, the purpose of which is to break down your psyche and induce as a consequence, the pure exhilaration of subordination and thereby momentarily while away the boredom and drudgery of the so-called "married" "life" (which is in reality, the consummation of death.) Instead of fighting back in all the stratagems of insanity and inkaar, so that you too may enjoy the sweetness of breaking the will of another, you have instead opted to complain on an internet forum, proving that she is your psychic superior.

Not a good look bro

Listen to what shaytaan says this time

 

[tootrappy]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

Why are you scared of her u this is why she is complainig U need to assert your authority over her as a Man

 

[CaliTedesse]

Trust me guys this brother is not hitting it right in the bed trying to act like naago and give his wife emotional support by talking and being subservient like naag yaa weld be a real man and hit her spots good in bed stop being so f*cking jileec.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Maybe divorce her. Honestly I think you should just divorce her. If my phone doesn't do what it's supposed to do and nothing makes the phone work- do I weep? No. The answer is to get rid of the phone. You can get a newer, better phone. The previous phone was maybe a piece of junk anyways.

Another thing is where you obtain the next phone. You don't want to go to some place where the phones are not reliable. Go where you can get a better phone.

Personally, I would avoid a touch screen btw. I know touch screens are trendy but I despise the touch screen. I miss the older model where the phones had buttons.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Maybe divorce her. Honestly I think you should just divorce her. If my phone doesn't do what it's supposed to do and nothing makes the phone work- do I weep? No. The answer is to get rid of the phone. You can get a newer, better phone. The previous phone was maybe a piece of junk anyways.

Another thing is where you obtain the next phone. You don't want to go to some place where the phones are not reliable. Go where you can get a better phone.

Personally, I would avoid a touch screen btw. I know touch screens are trendy but I despise the touch screen. I miss the older model where the phones had buttons.

So you are comparing a female, insaan, human being to a phone and then yall f*cking wonder why Somali girls are going to ajnabis HAHAHAHAHH

 

[Glizzo da Goat]

man I have tried everything. Listening, positive reinforcement. Gratitude building, trying to fix issues everything. But every single day my woman is complaining and whining about every single thing.

Shit it’s so bad sometimes I prefer to stay at work late.

Man what does a man do?

Eat the cat and see how that works

 

[Omar del Sur]

So you are comparing a female, insaan, human being to a phone and then yall f*cking wonder why Somali girls are going to ajnabis HAHAHAHAHH

This kind of logic led that man to drive across the Canadian border to buy that woman bagels.

 

[Veteran]

This kind of logic led that man to drive across the Canadian border to buy that woman bagels.

I agree 100%

 

[CaliTedesse]

This kind of logic led that man to drive across the Canadian border to buy that woman bagels.

lol f*ck that simp sxb I would never do that wa lakin you remind me of my friend I once talked too.

https://www.somalispot.com/threads/some-somali-men-are-very-weird.67013/

 

[Omar del Sur]

lol f*ck that simp sxb I would never do that wa lakin you remind me of my friend I once talked too.

https://www.somalispot.com/threads/some-somali-men-are-very-weird.67013/

Yet you want to try to shame me for not being male feminist.