In my family, the only person who married outside our bloodline was my older brother. He married an Egyptian girl of non-Somali origin whom he had known since they were 16. Initially, he never imagined that he would Breed with a non-Somali person, but she eagerly wanted to marry him and have a halal union. So, he decided to go along with it. Mashallah, she is an amazing woman who has a deep appreciation for Somali culture, particularly our cuisine. Recently, they welcomed their first child, a baby girl. Following the birth, she requested my mother and sister to prepare various Somali dishes for her.
He will certainly be the last person in our family to marry outside our bloodline. Communication between her and my parents is quite challenging, as there isn't much they can say to each other. Despite the language barrier, they often find laughter as a common ground, and my sister helps with translation since my mother isn't fluent in English. Marrying within our own culture is simply easier for our parents, and it also ensures that we share a lot in common. I personally desire to make Somali jokes and keep cultural elements within our family, creating that warm and familiar Somali atmosphere whenever I return home.
MashaAllah, I have twelve siblings, all of whom are beautiful. Among them, my older sister stands out with her exceptional beauty. She possesses the qualities that meet various beauty standards, except for being of European white descent. Despite her striking looks, she has never shown an inclination to marry someone from outside our Somali community. Interestingly, she happens to be one of the strongest proponents of Somali nationalism and holds a firm stance against foreigners. Even while living in the West, her command of the Somali language rivals that of a nomad in the Somali countryside. Her passion for Somali music knows no bounds. And when it comes to cooking, she surpasses even our mother, showcasing her culinary prowess in preparing a wide range of dishes, particularly Somali cuisine. In fact, her skills are so impressive that she could easily open her own Somali restaurant.
However, despite the potential suitors from various backgrounds, my older sister ultimately chose to marry a Somali man, even from the same Qabil. He is a wonderful person, hardworking, with a calm and composed temperament. Moreover, he is deeply committed to his faith. While some people may have commented that she is way out of her league, it is important to remember that people always find something to say. In reality, he is not unattractive at all. They are now expecting a child together, further solidifying their bond and commitment to each other. I consider him lucky too we lost best cook in our house now.