That's true. @Mercury Women like their men to be leaders, not house husbands yuck , you're the man of the house. Your word is law. Women might say they want their men to treat them like equals, but that's a lie. Otherwise why do they always go for the bad boys? The men who treat them badly? Why do nice guys finish last? Why do nice guys always get friendzoned? It's because women are not aroused by weak men aka nice guys. You're speaking like a weak man above, you'll get nothing but hurt if you treat your love interest like that. I'm not saying be mean, just don't be overly cuddly and nice, it's an extreme turn off.