The true definition of Ceeb..

[Bohol]

I remember going to the kitchen to grab something when I visited Galkayo. My aunt threatened me if she ever saw me again in the kitchen. I know we need change, but I won't be the Rosa Parks for Somalis. f*ck that.

Kitchen is women territory in Somalia so don't be surprised.

 

[Shamis]

All my brothers know how to cook, my mum taught them.

 

[Mercury]

@Mercury I´m amazed by all of these cretins talking like helping your spouse makes you a "cuck".
At the moment i´m in a relationship with my habeshi queen that i also live with.
Both of us are a year fresh out of uni, but we got full-time jobs. Since we both are ajanabi and newly done with our education, we both work a little bit extra, and put in more work than our co-workers for obvious reasons. We have a hectic schedule, so we have to help each other with everything in the house, it would be insane if i let her do all the work. Mind you, we have no kids so we only have each other to attend to, but it would be insane if we had kids and i didn´t do shit other than what "men" are supposed to do.

And so my question is to you muslim faraxs out there, is your dear prophet a cuck? he clearly helped his wife but you guys insist only made men help the women with cooking, cleaning or attend to your child. In this world we need usually two checks to run a household, how do you justify this kind of behavior towards your wife?

Go get a shaqalo (maid) straight out of moqdishu.

Exactly! things are changing theres no excuse to not help around the house and clean After yourself when you come from work

Theres even a survey that says the number one cause for divorce is money second comes household chores

 

[Lostbox]

You people are entraining. This is not power play( or for you lots power struggle). It's a value based system. Looks at the value you bring each other not what your feeling. Me cooking and cleaning is to do with how much I value my women not you believe doing what is right. Have you seen women out there. They baby, you spoil, you not let you pick up a thing. Yet, they are high quality women that have the leverage to demand more. They treat themselves so low. Used to have some family friend that used to clean my room for me but hers were a filth. I wouldn't go near it. Honestly, there is not only one way to handle a relationship or people in general but it's to do with adapting to the environment that will best benefit you. This is way you always keep improving on yourself so you can be the one that make demands and has the least to lose but most to gain.

 

[Steamdevolopment]

True ceeb is when mom beats you in the grocery store and when you try to run another Somali helps put you down while white people is calling the child protective service.

 

[hindhisle]

Another meaningless topic

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

Im like certain that his wife will cheat on him if he carries on like this. I mean women are turned off by this. He needs deep self evaluation.

thats not true m8 women applaud this and brag about this to their friends.

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

@Mercury is right. Help your wife in the house instead of being lazy sleaze bags. If you dont your wife might fantasize of secretly killing you with a sledgehammer at night :siilaanyolaugh: Just a warning

 

[supz]

thats not true m8 women applaud this and brag about this to their friends.

There is a great difference between what women "want" and what they desire in a man.

 

[Strawberryshuffle]

There is a great difference between what women "want" and what they desire in a man.

I think I would know better since I am the woman here.

 

[Bohol]

@Mercury is right. Help your wife in the house instead of being lazy sleaze bags. If you dont your wife might fantasize of secretly killing you with a sledgehammer at night :siilaanyolaugh: Just a warning

 

[VixR]

These guys on here are only mirroring their fathers, and we've seen what a lot of that looks like, and how most of them turn out from that, so I'm not suprised at the uproar, nor can you really blame them, can you?

Their mothers did everything. They will continue in that trend.

As women, a man can only do so much (or rather, so little) as you let him get away with, so if you're happy with that setup, by all means continue to put up with it.

That's my view on it

'Alhamdulilah' some of us have much better fathers, and thus hold healthier expectations, ie, which would in turn garner better outcomes than the life of misery the female counterparts of these fragile characters can hope for

 

[Abdalla]

@Mercury don't treat them too nice before you know your girl will ask you to take pics of her and her new boyfriend

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Exactly they want a maid, but what they don't know is she's plotting to come to the west and be 10x worse than the girls in the west right now that he's complaining about. But let him learn the hard way.

I've seen that happened many times

They bring a girl from back home, she finesses these simps, and leaves them for a more wealthier abdi

 

[mrcool]

These guys on here are only mirroring their fathers, and we've seen what a lot of that looks like, and how most of them turn out from that, so I'm not suprised at the uproar, nor can you really blame them, can you?

Their mothers did everything. They will continue in that trend.

As women, a man can only do so much (or rather, so little) as you let him get away with, so if you're happy with that setup, by all means continue to put up with it.

That's my view on it

'Alhamdulilah' some of us have much better fathers, and thus hold healthier expectations, ie, which would in turn garner better outcomes than the life of misery the female counterparts of these fragile characters can hope for

I agree with this its definitely a culture issue xalimos can fix this by being more strict to their sons and less so with their daughters.