The household chores is women's job and I would never wife a woman that is refusing it. Men's job is to feed her and do the outside job.This is the thing why in Somali culture is doing household chores synonomous with wifes duties?
Its not its even Sunnah to help your wife with those things and thats what I follow
Naagi ninkii cariir u gogla xanan bay u
Then so be it, just don't blame us when u can't figure out why u love the 'nice' man ur with but not 'in love' with him lol.
Its the sad reality. The female psyche is completely different to that of the man. I used to be like you sxb, until I understood. Don't treat her too badly. But the shit you are doing is a ticking time bomb.Leave me? Cause I treat her good?
And if I treat her horrible she Will stay because shes scared of what I Will do ?
Some of you got some fucked up mentalities
Sounds like an alternate universe to me buddy... a universe filled with paranoia and fear of women. A universe filled with fragile masculinity.We are experienced and live in the real world not a alternate universe.
Correction!The household chores is women's job and I would never wife a woman that is refusing it. Men's job is to feed her and do the outside job.
Correction!
Nowhere in the quran does it say the wife is responsible for cooking and cleaning even the prophet pbuh helped his wifes around the house yet some of you are standing here talking about she wont respect you
The irony
So true. But you know why that happens right because we all are attracted to what's familiar
to us not necessarily what is good for us. So if we grew up in a patriarchal household and witnessed a distant caregiver...we are more likely to think we are attracted to that more so then the nice guy who is good for us but makes us feel uncomfortable. We have to be willing to learn to heal from our past.
Sounds like an alternate universe to me buddy... a universe filled with paranoia and fear of women. A universe filled with fragile masculinity.
Its the sad reality. The female psyche is completely different to that of the man. I used to be like you sxb, until I understood. Don't treat her too badly. But the shit you are doing is a ticking time bomb.
That's not true. The physical features and social characteristics women are attracted to in a man are biologically determined and are hardwired into them. It has very little to with social conditioning.
I dont give 2 fucks and I Will continue doing what I always Done
sxb I am reer badiye I have never done household chores in my life nore I am planning to do it.Correction!
Nowhere in the quran does it say the wife is responsible for cooking and cleaning even the prophet pbuh helped his wifes around the house yet some of you are standing here talking about she wont respect you
The irony
I do follow men especially My uncle whose been married for 30 years!If i was you i'd listen to men who have actually undergone the male experience rather than the women who can only touch it at the surface. Play your cards wisely.
Be very wary of the term hard wired ....and double check your sources buddy. Learn about attachment styles.
sxb I am reer badiye I have never done household chores in my life nore I am planning to do it.
Personally I didn't say no women will respect you, evidently some of the women here seem to like your type which shows they do respect you.
Noted ... I have learned the golden rule tonight.When it comes to these things the rule is to pay attention to what women do not what they say.
Exactly. You need to have a strict line for the xalimo not cross over. If not you basically become the doormat of the relationship like you said.