The rise of the unmarried late 20s - early 30s Somali diaspora woman

[Jake from State Farm]

True, I feel like a creep doing that shit bro.

Bro imma watch out for some females now. That is weird. Someone just liking you out of no where. That is just straight up odd.

I wouldn't want someone to just start acting brand new to me out of no where.

 

[Sophisticate]

He's misguided, give love a chance. It could be like a rom com where the two opposites slowly fall in love

That's a common movie trope. He's an enemy combatant if he treads past the battleline.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Bro imma watch out for some females now. That is weird. Someone just liking you out of no where. That is just straight up odd.

I wouldn't want someone to just start acting brand new to me out of no where.

It'll happen man. You shouldn't hate on a woman liking you outta nowhere. You just gotta be sensible in a way. Like you don't gotta make her feel like she's weird or whatever, you know what I mean?

 

[dr.leorio]

That's not evidence of skewing the results, that just further consolidates the fact that there are more males than females on this planet at the present time, it could easily change in the future.

Hmm maybe you're right. That might've not been the best example. But their are many other factors on why Somali people are not getting married or delaying marriage in the diaspora. They could range from waiting to finish school to not being able to find the right spouse or maybe even being too picky. Ratio however doesn't play a huge role when things like hypergamy, western society promoting zina/decadence, and being in a gaalo country aren't factored in..

Listen to the sheikh in this video around the 7:35 mark to get more of an example of what I mean:

 

[YourBroMoe]

Hmm maybe you're right. That might've not been the best example. But their are many other factors on why Somali people are not getting married or delaying marriage in the diaspora. They could range from waiting to finish school to not being able to find the right spouse or maybe even being too picky. Ratio however doesn't play a huge role when things like hypergamy, western society promoting zina/decadence, and being in a gaalo country aren't factored in..

Listen to the sheikh in this video around the 7:35 mark to get more of an example of what I mean:

My g, I gotta ask: are you a fkin weeaboo? Why dafuq do you have an anime character as a name and dp? Are you trying to get punked here? WTF were you thinking?

 

[lone]

Nothing beats an educated lady.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I see. Thanks for sharing your perspective. Esp with the body language thing, because most guys won't admit that they pay attention to those subtle cues.

But I'm not surprised though. Some girls talk with a guy in hopes of snatching him up from the market, but you can tell that they are just going through the motions, and really only want him for what he has accomplished, rather than for who he is.

Have you ever been around those couples? There is no chemistry between them. It is quite sad wallahi.

I'm dead ass just reading this thread taking notes.
A nigga has been learning some new things.

 

[YourBroMoe]

I'm dead ass just reading this thread taking notes.
A nigga has been learning some new things.

My g, dfkm.

 

[Desert Flower]

I'm dead ass just reading this thread taking notes.
A nigga has been learning some new things.

Well, you're welcome?

I mean, it happens, unfortunately.

Some people, both girls and guys, honestly do not care about anyone but themselves. They are what Bueller from Sheeko Sheeko refers to as, "Emotional Terrorists."

 

[Jake from State Farm]

It'll happen man. You shouldn't hate on a woman liking you outta nowhere. You just gotta be sensible in a way. Like you don't gotta make her feel like she's weird or whatever, you know what I mean?

But why couldn't they give you hints beforehand about being interested in you. Especially if your making good money too and got a nice solid career. Like wtf. My gold digger senses would be tingling if some girl I sort of new just started DMing me out of the blue

 

[YourBroMoe]

But why couldn't they give you hints beforehand about being interested in you. Especially if your making good money too and got a nice solid career. Like wtf. My gold digger senses would be tingling if some girl I sort of new just started DMing me out of the blue

I use to think like that until I had a revelation. You wanna know what the difference is between a gold digger and a woman with standards?

A gold digger has absolutely nothing to offer, but a woman who's worth it has shit to bring on the table. If she likes you cause you've set yourself up for life, that's the stereotypical way to get women. So it's obviously the right way. All you gotta do is figure out her story.

If she ain't shit, ditch her for someone else. If she is, then get that queen nigga. Alls I'm saying.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Well, you're welcome?

I mean, it happens, unfortunately.

Some people, both girls and guys, honestly do not care about anyone but themselves. They are what Bueller from Sheeko Sheeko refers to as, "Emotional Terrorists."

Im really not trying to be someone's last resort option.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I use to think like that until I had a revelation. You wanna know what the difference is between a gold digger and a woman with standards?

A gold digger has absolutely nothing to offer, but a woman who's worth it has shit to bring on the table. If she likes you cause you've set yourself up for life, that's the stereotypical way to get women. So it's obviously the right way. All you gotta do is figure out her story.

If she ain't shit, ditch her for someone else. If she is, then get that queen nigga. Alls I'm saying.

Facts absolute facts. I always considered marrying a female that had money anyway.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

@YourBroMoe since you started working have you had any females start hitting you up out of the blue?

 

[YourBroMoe]

@YourBroMoe since you started working have you had any females start hitting you up out of the blue?

From time to time yeah. But it died down a few months ago. It was women from all over. The main issue with ppl my age is getting a real job. So I'd see people in public and they'd ask me what I'm doing, and I'd say I work for so and so place, and they'll be like damn and shit. Then I ask back, and they feel awk and shit. So it's a status symbol unfortunately. Like, I got ppl at work asking me if I'm getting a girlfriend or getting married. So these topics and conversations do indeed happen.

Great thing about women though, they're not awk about it. God bless women.

 

[GeKo]

I'm dead ass just reading this thread taking notes.
A nigga has been learning some new things.

You're like the the faceless man from GOT who always says @A man has been learning...
But you're the nigga version
A nigga this nigga that...
A nigga has been learning some new things
A nigga wants to eat ass

 

[Desert Flower]

Im really not trying to be someone's last resort option.

Okay, then take the time to get to know each other. Ask pertinent questions. If someone is genuine with you, you can tell. Also, if a girl is busy and has her own life going on, and she is interested in you, high chance that her feelings for you are genuine. Also you can tell when you are speaking with each other. What do you talk about? Sports? Religion? Politics and daily events or do y'all talk about Love and Hip Hop and who posted what on Snapchat/Instagram? Open your eyes, and you can start to differentiate between who is genuine from who is fake.

 

[Apollo]

You guys go by stereotypes too much. People have a hundred different reasons for not marrying early.

 

[Crow]

My g, I gotta ask: are you a fkin weeaboo? Why dafuq do you have an anime character as a name and dp? Are you trying to get punked here? WTF were you thinking?

Warya, have some respect. Hunter x Hunter is the greatest shonen anime in existence.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Warya, have some respect. Hunter x Hunter is the greatest shonen anime in existence.

Hey, I fks with Hunter X Hunter, One Piece and other anime/manga. But having it as a dp is a different ball game bro.