The rise of the unmarried late 20s - early 30s Somali diaspora woman

[YourBroMoe]

A lot of educated Somali women who reside in the west will be forced to marry Ajnabi. That is a fact.

There just simply isn’t enough educated/on par Somali men to cater to the Somali women. You all have noticed the overwhelming difference in ratios at your respective universities and the gap is simply gonna increase.

I wish there is a way to reverse this but things are just looking more bleak towards the future.

I guess I'm blessed

 

[Sophisticate]

A lot of educated Somali women who reside in the west will be forced to marry Ajnabi. That is a fact.

There just simply isn’t enough educated/on par Somali men to cater to the Somali women. You all have noticed the overwhelming difference in ratios at your respective universities and the gap is simply gonna increase.

I wish there is a way to reverse this but things are just looking more bleak towards the future.

Why do you think the future is bleak? There will always be Somali brothers around. In terms of the girls, some won't get married period. Others will likely stick with Somalis. As for Somali guys I know plenty. Anyone who says there are slim pickings hasn't gone outside. Some don't marry as they are taking care of an ailing parent. Others drag their feet academically until later on (forgoing marriage). Some procrastinate on marriage to pursue professional trainning. Some are mamas boys that refuse to leave the nest. Some aren't into socializing. Some get very addicted to being a bachelor or have exceedingly high standards. As you can see they run the gammit. I think the surplus of women is overstated. And not every Farax is a street pharmacist. Most pursue some level of postsecondary education.

 

[BANTU]

One thing somali guys are good at is they know how to pick their wives. Good girls don't go beyond 20-22 without being wifed up. If she's unmarried and is approaching 30, u better believe there's a good reason. among them:

she has a past, she used to wild out, clubbing etc..
she spent her 20s talking about I don't need no man because she finished her gender studies degree
she ran after ajnabis, dissed faaraxs, aka self hate, and hate for all things somali.


she falls into one of those three. never waste your time on a somali girl that's beyond 23 years of age unless she's in medical school.

@sophisticate shots fired

 

[yaanyuur]

This happens because somali girls play I will act like I am not interested so it is worth the chase for him. And then they wonder why the guy gave up. If they are interested in the guy they will keep talking and do favors but never make it clear like us guys who will say things like you are cute or are you single. All girls are the same. They expect the guy to do all the work.

 

[Shaolin23]

One thing somali guys are good at is they know how to pick their wives. Good girls don't go beyond 20-22 without being wifed up. If she's unmarried and is approaching 30, u better believe there's a good reason. among them:

she has a past, she used to wild out, clubbing etc..
she spent her 20s talking about I don't need no man because she finished her gender studies degree
she ran after ajnabis, dissed faaraxs, aka self hate, and hate for all things somali.


she falls into one of those three. never waste your time on a somali girl that's beyond 23 years of age unless she's in medical school.

Not all are like that but damn yo it’s some truth to what your saying

 

[Sophisticate]

@sophisticate shots fired

How so?

 

[excuseme]

The Prophet Muhammed (pbuh) prophesied this long ago that this sign would occur during the last hour. This phenomenon is happening among Muslims and non-Muslims alike with women not being able to find husbands.

Al-Bukhari from Anas

who said: I heard the Messenger of Allaah

, saying: “The signs of the Hour include the scarcity of knowledge, the manifestation of ignorance, the display of adultery, the abundance of women, and the decrease of men to the extent that for fifty women there will be one man.” In another narration: “And you will see one man followed by forty women.”

I would suggest bringing back the sunnah of polygamy to get these women married to good Somali men as well as educate the youth about the importance of getting married young and building a family. I personally believe if we don't start now, the problem will only get worse in the future.

"According to the world's statistics, there are more men than women in the world today. The United Nations estimates the number of men to approximately 3,776,294,273 while women are estimated to be approximately 3,710,295,643. Approximately, 107 boys are born for every 100 girls born"

 

[BANTU]

How so?

My bad, I didn't see @Ferrari excluded you from his misogynistic bullshit (I thought for a second he aired you out though )

 

[World]

Probably because they all want 50k mehr, gym going faraax, who is 6 ft, dark skin, good looking with a degree etc.

Tbh I don’t know much about faraxs in their late 20s early 30s, but the ones my age (20-21) in the UK are all in university. And tbh, most of them are more religious than the Somali girls who are clubbing, drinking etc. In most of the Somali societies, there are more Somali guys than Somali girls. Once Somali girls leave their homes to go university, they turn into the worst specimens known to man. All the girls in my university are getting fucked by white guys and are beer drinkers. Who the f*ck is gonna marry that?

I would say that there aren’t enough good Somali girls in comparison to the guys.

 

[dr.leorio]

"According to the world's statistics, there are more men than women in the world today. The United Nations estimates the number of men to approximately 3,776,294,273 while women are estimated to be approximately 3,710,295,643. Approximately, 107 boys are born for every 100 girls born"

I believe my Prophet over the Kufaar any day and everyday. And plus countries like India and China skew the results making the data incongruent especially in western countries.

 

[excuseme]

I believe my Prophet over the Kufaar any day and everyday. And plus countries like India and China skew the results making the data incongruent especially in western countries.

How exactly do they skew the results??

 

[Sophisticate]

My bad, I didn't see @Ferrari excluded you from his misogynistic bullshit (I thought for a second he aired you out though )

As much as he whines about Xalimos. He still parades himself around me like a boy toy. I politely decline his advances. Very gentlewomanly of me, soomaha.

 

[MadMax]

Probably because they all want 50k mehr, gym going faraax, who is 6 ft, dark skin, good looking with a degree etc.

Tbh I don’t know much about faraxs in their late 20s early 30s, but the ones my age (20-21) in the UK are all in university. And tbh, most of them are more religious than the Somali girls who are clubbing, drinking etc. In most of the Somali societies, there are more Somali guys than Somali girls. Once Somali girls leave their homes to go university, they turn into the worst specimens known to man. All the girls in my university are getting fucked by white guys and are beer drinkers. Who the f*ck is gonna marry that?

I would say that there aren’t enough good Somali girls in comparison to the guys.

Somali guys are calm but these dhiilo think they're black and turn to degeneracy that is negro culture. This is what happens when you let your daughters listen to negro music

 

[BANTU]

As much as he whines about Xalimos. He still parades himself around me like a boy toy. I politely decline his advances. Very gentlewomanly of me, soomaha.

He's misguided, give love a chance. It could be like a rom com where the two opposites slowly fall in love

 

[dr.leorio]

How exactly do they skew the results??

Places like China have the one child policy. They have over a billion people and since most people want boys they get blood tests to determine the sex of the fetus. In other words, they selectively breed for boys, thus skewing the results.

 

[World]

Somali guys are calm but these dhiilo think they're black and turn to degeneracy that is negro culture. This is what happens when you let your daughters listen to negro music

We’ve got too many beta faraaxs on here who think that just because a girl puts on hijab when she’s 28-30 and is unmarried, that she’s a good woman. Most Somali woman lose their virginity in university, only a minority are pure.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Probably because they all want 50k mehr, gym going faraax, who is 6 ft, dark skin, good looking with a degree etc.

Tbh I don’t know much about faraxs in their late 20s early 30s, but the ones my age (20-21) in the UK are all in university. And tbh, most of them are more religious than the Somali girls who are clubbing, drinking etc. In most of the Somali societies, there are more Somali guys than Somali girls. Once Somali girls leave their homes to go university, they turn into the worst specimens known to man. All the girls in my university are getting fucked by white guys and are beer drinkers. Who the f*ck is gonna marry that?

I would say that there aren’t enough good Somali girls in comparison to the guys.

My nigga, I'm a logical motherfucker and what you said makes no sense. If you don't f*ck with that lifestyle, how do you know they're living that lifestyle? Social media? Where are the receipts my guy?

 

[excuseme]

Places like China have the one child policy. They have over a billion people and since most people want boys they get blood tests to determine the sex of the fetus. In other words, they selectively breed for boys, thus skewing the results.

That's not evidence of skewing the results, that just further consolidates the fact that there are more males than females on this planet at the present time, it could easily change in the future.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Bro I literally been seeing and hearing news of homeboys around my age getting engaged and etc and I'm like Damn I don't plan on getting married until late 20s or early 30s. Since I'm really interested in working on medicine my original goal right now is to finish school first than get married.

I felt I was screwing myself over sort of marriage wise because I assumed most females were getting married early mid 20s. I was planning on just focusing on myself and just ultimately try my best to not focus on women at all.

Plus I don't think my parents would even try to help me find a spouse while I'm school. I also assume most females wouldn't even try to look in my direction because of the fact I didn't finish school.

But this is interesting to learn about females in the high 20s still looking for a spouse. I can't see myself marrying someone way younger than me. Not a fan of big age gaps

 

[YourBroMoe]

Bro I literally been seeing and hearing news of homeboys around my age getting engaged and etc and I'm like Damn I don't plan on getting married until late 20s or early 30s. Since I'm really interested in working on medicine my original goal right now is to finish school first than get married.

I felt I was screwing myself over sort of marriage wise because I assumed most females were getting married early mid 20s. I was planning on just focusing on myself and just ultimately try my best to not focus on women at all.

Plus I don't think my parents would even try to help me find a spouse while I'm school. I also assume most females wouldn't even try to look in my direction because of the fact I didn't finish school.

But this is interesting to learn about females in the high 20s still looking for a spouse. I can't see myself marrying someone way younger than me. Not a fan of big age gaps

True, I feel like a creep doing that shit bro.