The negative impacts of feminism
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1.Yes, a woman will be with her husband in Paradise, and even with her children, sons and daughters, if they are Muslim. This is indicated by the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):
“And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in Faith, - to them shall We join their offspring, and We shall not decrease the reward of their deeds in anything.” [al-Toor 52:21]
It is also indicated by the du’aa’ of the angels who carry the Throne:
“Our Lord! And make them enter the ‘Adn (Eden) Paradise (everlasting Gardens) which you have promised them and to the righteous among their fathers, their wives, and their offspring! Verily, You are the All-Mighty, the All-Wise” [Ghaafir 40:8 – interpretation of the meaning]
Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
“(This means) bring them together so that they may find delight in one another in neighbouring dwellings. This is like the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):
‘And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in Faith, - to them shall We join their offspring, and We shall not decrease the reward of their deeds in anything.’ [al-Toor 52:21] This means: We shall make them all equal in status so that they may find joy. This will not be by lowering the one who is higher in status until he is equal with the one who is lower; on the contrary, We shall raise the one who is lacking in good deeds and make them equal, as a bounty and a blessing from Us. Sa’eed ibn Jubair said: when the believer enters Paradise, he will ask about his father, son and brother and where they are. It will be said to him, they did not reach the same level of good deeds as you did. He will say, But I only strove for my sake and for theirs. Then they will be brought to join him on the level where he is.”
“‘And (Eden) Paradise (everlasting Gardens), which they shall enter and (also) those who acted righteously from among their fathers, and their wives, and their offspring. And angels shall enter unto them from every gate…” [al-Ra’d 13:23]
It's sunnah but it increases your burden you must be fair with time & provision.
We are lucky bro. Today women take your role and their own. Sit down a relax.
Women today will to take care of the kids, the house, the food, work their ass off to pay half the bills and let you be the man of the house
All you got to do is play part time dad, clean the dishes on occasions and and take out the trash. Life is easy
Let not talk about all the women will put out after a few dates or the others that take pride in being a booty call
Its never been a better time to be a man
Women today will to take care of the kids, the house, the food, work their ass off to pay half the bills and let you be the man of the house
All you got to do is play part time dad, clean the dishes on occasions and and take out the trash. Life is easy
Let not talk about all the women will put out after a few dates or the others that take pride in being a booty call
Its never been a better time to be a man
sxb thats what feminists say bc they hate polgyny and think it is an oppressive system.
It was not mainly for political reasons, the women who say that want to dumb down the prophet ﷺs marriages just for one reason which is political. Anyone who has read the seerah will know that the prophet ﷺ loved all of his wives, and he married them for multiple reasons, not just for politics, juwariyya RA was a beauutiful woman, and the prophet ﷺ liked her beauty so he married her, he also married umm salamah and umm habiba which had no political reasons, he jsut wanted to marry more religious women.
Most of the sahaba had multiple wives, and the ones who didnt had slave-women, so in a sense, most men in the sahab were polygynos
Saying polygyny as a system is destructive is going against Allahs words as Allah prescribed polygyny for all times not just the prophet ﷺs . Everything Allah allowed for us is good
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This day, good things have been made lawful for you. The food of the people of the Book is lawful for you, and your food is lawful for them, and good women from among believers, and good women from among those who were given the Book before you, provided you give them their dowers, binding yourself in marriage, neither going for lust, nor having paramours. Whoever rejects Faith, his effort will go to waste and, in the Hereafter, he will be among the losers.
I feel uncomfortable with this. Women are destroying themselves for some idealogy that does not care about them.
Why would I want my wife to overwork herself on breaking point for her entire life bc shes been brainwashed by some kuffar ideology so I can sit bac and have it easy
If u wanna be the man of the house then u have to be putting in as much/more work than ur women, men were given more muscles more energy more ability to work than women for a reason. Nowadays man act like women in marriages and its unnatural and I dont like it
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I've read this passage Angie. Righteous people will enter heaven along with their righteous earthly kin.
No where in that passage does it say earthly husband and wife remain in a relationship within Jannah.
it literally says "and their wives"
It says their wives? Why would they talk about believing men's wives if they'll be going their seperate ways? The passage talks about fathers, offsprings ect which makes it clear we will still have relationships with our fathers and offspring, and wives were mentioned which also indicates you'll still have a relationship with her.
Also actual scholars like Ibn Kathir interprets it this way? Also, the Prophet's s.a.w wives weren't allowed to marry again because they'll be reunited with him in Jannah, which is a strong indication that Islamic marriages are indeed eternal.
The best and most correct of these views is the third one, concerning which there is a hadeeth attributed to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) (marfoo’): “Any woman whose husband dies and she marries someone else after him, she will be with the last of her husbands.” This was classed as saheeh by Al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Saheeh Al-Jaami’, 2704, and in Al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 1281.
Never said it was Haram or bad, just that it is not sunnah or favored upon.
Ash-Shirbeeni from the Shaafi'i School of jurisprudence, said: "It is a Sunnah not to marry more than one wife if there is no apparent need." [Mughni al-Muhtaj 4/207].
Moreover, Al-Maawardi, said: “Allaah has permitted a man to marry up to four wives, saying: {…two or three or four…}, but Allaah advised that it is desirable for man to marry only one wife, saying: {...But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one}"
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Well yeah they're wives now, doesn't say they remain wives in heaven.
I mean there's no clear ayah or hadith that says earthly husband and wife will be in relationship in heaven.
How would it work if a woman became widowed, she remarried and died married to the 2nd husband, would she have two husbands in heaven?
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked: Is plural marriage permissible in Islam or is it Sunnah?
He replied: Plural marriage is Sunnah for the one who can afford it. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice”
[al-Nisa’ 4:3]
And it is Sunnah because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did it. He had nine wives and Allaah benefited the ummah through them. This is one of the things that applied only to him (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Other men are not allowed to have more than four wives.
There are many benefits in plural marriage for men and women and for the Muslim ummah as a whole. Plural marriage enables everyone to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, to have many children, and for a man to take care of many women and protect them from the causes of evil and deviation.
The poster above literally just posted a sahih hadith that indicates she'll be with the last husband.Well yeah they're wives now, doesn't say they remain wives in heaven.
I mean there's no clear ayah or hadith that says earthly husband and wife will be in relationship in heaven.
How would it work if woman became widowed, she remarried and died married to the 2nd husband, would she have two husbands in heaven?
Clearly there are differences of opinions. Even in the Hanbali school of thought they think it is better to marry one.
Ibn Qudaamah] from the Hanbali School of jurisprudence, said in Ash-Sharh Al-Kabeer: “It is more appropriate to marry only one wife.
Finally, Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen said: “It is safer to restrict oneself to only one wife
Anyways people are free to do what they want as long as they have time and resources.
Also, women can put a polygamy clause in their marriage contract.
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Yes I seen it after the fact.
Sxb can you link the passage from this website? I can't find it.
Sunnah.com - Sayings and Teachings of Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه و سلم)
Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad (saws) in several languages
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Hey, why are you fighting against the idea you'd be with your wife for eternity lool.Yes I seen it after the fact.
Sxb can you link the passage from this website? I can't find it.
Sunnah.com - Sayings and Teachings of Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه و سلم)
Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad (saws) in several languages
Is it becauase your girl is a gaal? I mean it does damper the whole being together forever aspect
yh ik.
but ppl use there opinions to make polygyny seem haram and condemn anyone who does it, even advising ppl who can do it to not do it. I just see it as weird that ppl have so much aversion to polygyny due to there cultural values. they are hostile to the idea
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