Isn't it deceptive though planning to marry when you can't see yourself growing old with her?It's not a plan. I was predicting how life would unfold from an impersonal 3rd person POV; knowing looks fade, minor relationship spats pile up, etc. I love my fiancé atm and I plan on sticking around raising kids to adulthood, that's why I'm getting married.
Looks fade and so does health at times, imagine if she was thinking of divorce as men compared to women in their 60s tend to have a whole host of health issues compared to men and its wives who tend to look after their partner and vice versa as well of course.