Maybe
1. They get abused by their men
2. They(men) are not willing to raise their children
3. Lack of communication
4. They(women) are in the wrong.
90% really? Can we get some evidence?
The Link between Single mothers and promiscuous daughters
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Maybe
1. They get abused by their men
2. They(men) are not willing to raise their children
3. Lack of communication
4. They(women) are in the wrong.
90% really? Can we get some evidence?
If a man is a burden yes the woman will divorce. Stop pretending that you know every somali woman's situation in the world. Our religion and culture cannot shelter incompetent men. the fact that you said 90% clearly shows that you know nothing. You just hate somali women. No one can take this seriously.
There's none, he's waffling. It's not 90% but a lot of xalimos like to marry early as soon as they see a 'secure' farax but they don't have the maturity and/or have their expectations crushed once they find out what marriage is really about. A lot of this generation's xalimos aren't like our parents, they didn't just give up at the first sight of trouble...they looked at the bigger picture and stuck to it for the greater good of the family. Also the older generation were more cultured and religious and saw things from a different perspective.
I agree with you, waaqo But I hate it when men blame everything on women. I've heard/seen many xalimos getting abused by their men both physically and mentally.
Sometimes marriage doesn't work out and divorce is inevitable.
Sometimes marriage doesn't work out and divorce is inevitable.
The reality is that if a woman divorces back in somalia she is shamed by the community so she has to stay even if she is suffering inside. In the west they don't have to cope with bullshit so of course they will divorce. So people portray women in somalia as "homemakers" and in women in the west who had maybe the courage to escape a situation as home wreckers like inquisitive LOVES to point out.
I am not denying the fact that lots of people have abused the concept of mariage. But everyone has reasons. And we can't generalize when some women have really gone through hell and divorce to keep their sanity. It's unfair to them and we are being unfair in front of Allah because we are assuming.
@TekNiKo @Yonis @Inquisitive_
Take a look at this old fella.....
Literally, his daughter is there, shaking her booty to thousands of men all over the world, and there he is joining in.......shame.
Take a look at this old fella.....
Literally, his daughter is there, shaking her booty to thousands of men all over the world, and there he is joining in.......shame.
You're absolutely bang on. A single parent household with just the mom, is the worst thing that could happen with children. The girls most likely become dirty dh1los, that will jump on any and all dicks, and the boys, either battyboys or drug dealing gang members. It's very rare, to find a child who grew up in a single parent household to come out right.
Barack Obama and Steve Jobs were raised by single mothers.
Discuss?
Discuss?
You impregnated another man’s daughter out of wedlock. You do not embody moral decency.
There's something called tawbah, can't hold an individual's past against them when Allah has forgiven them.
I suggest you tell him to humble himself and stop talking like his sh!t don’t stink.
They’re not Somali so how is that relevant
Divorce happens but the aftermath is what sorts out real men and women from garbage.
Divorces need to end amicably with shared parenting NOT abandoning the mother to raise children alone with zero financial and time input from the "father".
No woman requests a divorce for silly reasons especially if she has children. Furthermore, many choose to remain single because they don't want a strange man around their children.
Why demonise the parent who chose to raise the child and not the parent who abandoned the child?
Where are the single Somali fathers? Non-existent because they would rather build another family and abandon that one with ease also.
Arab men never abandon their children and would rather steal them than let their child be raised without a father.
That's why Arabs control their own countries for the most part, they are actually men and not responsibility dodging pretenders.
Divorces need to end amicably with shared parenting NOT abandoning the mother to raise children alone with zero financial and time input from the "father".
No woman requests a divorce for silly reasons especially if she has children. Furthermore, many choose to remain single because they don't want a strange man around their children.
Why demonise the parent who chose to raise the child and not the parent who abandoned the child?
Where are the single Somali fathers? Non-existent because they would rather build another family and abandon that one with ease also.
Arab men never abandon their children and would rather steal them than let their child be raised without a father.
That's why Arabs control their own countries for the most part, they are actually men and not responsibility dodging pretenders.
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It's outrageous. Why do divorced Somali men not seek a shared parenting arrangement? Because they are allergic to responsibility?
Somali men find it so easy to abandon their offspring even when they're married by doing the bare minimum. Compare them to Indians/Arabs who have their families on lock and their countries under their control.
I am 100% convinced that the same attitude that destroyed our country is destroying the Somali family.
The general section is filled with countless "men" who would rather insult women instead of assuming the position Allah intended for them.
It's like they're too scared/incapable of handling real affairs so they would prefer to insult women or brag about the accomplishments of men who died a long time ago.
Somalis are a nation with very few real men.
I expect the usual insults and deflections.
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We don't need think-tanks to figure out why "MEN" who
-Send their girls to work in Arab countries as maids
-Refuse to carry out manual labour and let the "Bantus" do it
-Sit in coffee shops/online bashing clans (older generation) or women (new generation)
-Don't seek shared custody after a divorce
Have dysfunctional families and an undeveloped and occupied country.
Allah created Adam first and then Hawa from his rib, the day you "men" learn what masculinity represents, you will find a "Hawa". Real women recognise and respect masculine energy; protecters and providers.
If you act like a "" you will marry a "" and have incel sons and promiscuous daughters.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
-Send their girls to work in Arab countries as maids
-Refuse to carry out manual labour and let the "Bantus" do it
-Sit in coffee shops/online bashing clans (older generation) or women (new generation)
-Don't seek shared custody after a divorce
Have dysfunctional families and an undeveloped and occupied country.
Allah created Adam first and then Hawa from his rib, the day you "men" learn what masculinity represents, you will find a "Hawa". Real women recognise and respect masculine energy; protecters and providers.
If you act like a "" you will marry a "" and have incel sons and promiscuous daughters.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
Barack had a stepfather also his grandfather was around. He had positive male role models.
Single mothers need help from respectable men in order to show the sons how to behave and to show daughters what a real man looks like.
So divorce causes Somali men to run away from their children?
Why are the men not seeking shared custody?
I have an aunt who got divorced but the father used to spend every day with his children in the library after school.
Unsurprisingly, all of their children are educated and well-behaved.
Divorce is terrible but neglect is far worse.
Instead of raising children in a loveless, toxic household, raise them in 2 happy households.
Unsurprisingly, all of their children are educated and well-behaved.
Divorce is terrible but neglect is far worse.
Instead of raising children in a loveless, toxic household, raise them in 2 happy households.
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