Something About My Ex-Wife.......

[NotMyL]

Welcome back.

Thank you

@Arma Were you renting a place together with your ex-wife? Or do you have your own place and basically kicked her out?

What man kicks his wife and children out? Audubillah even the worst of the worst leave the house never heard of a woman being kicked out of the house, I have seen scenarios where the man owns the house and he’s still the one to leave. You must not be Somali or know much about our culture.

 

[Jaydaan]

I recently bought a PS5. F*cking love it so far. As I was playing FIFA 21.....I had an outrageous thought about my ex-wife.

Throughout my life, I've been a massive gamer. I loved all the PlayStation consoles, I've owned over the years. I've even still got my old ps2 at my parents house.

So when I got married, I bought a ps4 from PC World in Westfield Shepherds Bush, while out shopping with her. Yeah, fair to say, she was not pleased in the slightest. To sorta win her over, I got a blue controller, as she is a Chelsea fan.

As you all know, I work in construction. I work roughly 60 hours a week, with super long commutes to the different sites all over London, that I'm sent to on a daily bases.

When I get home from a hard day at work, and on my Sunday day off, I love nothing more, than to sit back and spend an hour or two playing fifa or cod. But, everytime I would turn the damn thing on, I'd get death stares from her.

FYI: I would make sure I did all my duties in the house, before playing the damn games. In any case, it's not like I wasn't the one paying all the f*cking bills.

She would even deliberately attempt to go to bed in the early evening, to guilt trip me into turning the game off and join her in bed.

Then October 2018 comes around. One of my favourite games was Red Dead Redemption, a great game that was released in 2010. I had been waiting bloody years for the sequel....and October of that year was its release. I bought Red Dead 2 literally on the day of its release. I was gassed.

Literally not a week had gone by, when she forced me to not only stop gaming, but to sell the whole lot altogether.

Her whole reasoning was that *I'm a husband and a soon to be father.....gaming is for kids.....not people nearing 30*

For a while, I thought she had a point and was making sense. So like a good husband, I listened and sold it all to a local Cex store. Got a few bob for it all, so it wasn't all bad.

It doesn't end there. See my ex-wife has a sister. And she married this Iraqi or Persian guy (same people near enough). He was a nice guy, got nothing bad to say. By outward appearance, he seemed like a religious guy, with a great beard to boot.

The amount of arse licking this guy was getting from my ex-wife's family was just ridiculous. Forget Corona Virus.....there is an epidemic of Ajnabi jacel, amongst Somalis.

Now, I'm guilty of a lot of things, one of them being missing my Salahs. This is something we all need to work on. Literally, everytime I'd miss a salah, my ex-wife would go on about how much her sisters husband would pray, and how great his Iman is. That never bothered me anyway, like as if he would get more points than me to janaah, on the basis of him praying more than myself.

For a good year, this guy was unemployed....not that there's nothing wrong with that, people have their reasons. In all that time, my ex-wife would constantly pester me to hook him up with a job....what am I? The fucking Job Centre?

In anycase, I tried multiple times to hook him up with a job in construction, I even gave him what qualifications and courses he would need to take to become a tradesman of his choosing.

I know when someone doesn't want my help, and this guy was not interested. So if he doesn't want to work in construction or as a tradesman, then there's nothing i can do. That was his attitude, I'm no arselicker or beg a friend person. If someone doesn't want my help or wanna listen, they can f*ck right off.

Going back to the thing about the gaming. The whole year this fella was unemployed and didn't want me to hook him up with a job in construction, and the multiple times I'd go and pick up my ex and son from her sister's, he would be sitting there......GAMING....and yet, the whole family would be arselicking him, while making me out to be some villain, because I miss 1 or 2 salahs.......just can't make it up.

Somalis and Ajnabi Jacel, will be the end of us.

somali women marrying unemployed foreigners is a known story. If he is religious and speak arabic he is basically gold. Dude didnt work for a year....it doesnt matter. The so called religious girls are the worst. Any foreign bum as long as he wears a khamis is a catch in their eyes.

 

[Abdalla]

as if he would get more points than me to janaah, on the basis of him praying more than myself.

Euhm…yes he would

 

[Abdalla]

Somalis have a very weird assumptions. They’ll consider you a bum if you smoke cigarettes, while there are surgeons and professors that smoke. A previous Dutch minister of Finance was a fanatic gamer, but he got us through the financial crisis despite him spending 4-5 hours a day gaming.

Sometimes you need to be very strict in your expectations and make strict rules. Have zero tolerance for bullshit.

Is the ex missing you,Arma? Is she making attempts of getting back to each other?

 

[elite1337]

The respect just wasnt there sadly. Slaving away 60 hours a week and not be able to play games? Aint that a bltch. Im sure most women are not like that though hopefully your next marriage goes better than the last one lol. Ajnabis always get treated as some kinda trophy in interracial marriages so honestly its not surprising

 

[Siddhartha]

Thank you

What man kicks his wife and children out? Audubillah even the worst of the worst leave the house never heard of a woman being kicked out of the house, I have seen scenarios where the man owns the house and he’s still the one to leave. You must not be Somali or know much about our culture.

I'd kick her out if I paid for it all get out. Women are replaceable especially bad ones

 

[bidenkulaha]

Listen kid. You are not getting any sympathies from me. Gaming is a degenerate behaviour. I grew out of it at 17. Even thinking about getting back to it is just disgusting

 

[sagegreen]

Why would you share a private story like this? You got a profile picture

 

[Siddhartha]

Why would you share a private story like this? You got a profile picture

What was so bad about his story?

 

[Basra]

I don’t believe gaming was the issue, she was taking it out on the game but other issues in the marriage is the cause of her treatment towards you. My hubby works and plays video games, I don’t see anything wrong with it so as long as you aren’t abandoning your responsibilities.

u have a husband?

 

[Xaruun]

Why would you share a private story like this? You got a profile picture

He’s the OG @Ozman

 

[Afro Asiatic]

You were probably too respectful to her. I've noticed Somali dudes are soft with women.

Nacas

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

He was persian / Iraqi? Was he shia?

 

[Basra]

He was persian / Iraqi? Was he shia?

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Arma, did you leave your wife? The one in your youtube clips?

 

[sagegreen]

What was so bad about his story?

It’s private information

 

[Siddhartha]

It’s private information

So what?

 

[mr steal your naag]

Listen kid. You are not getting any sympathies from me. Gaming is a degenerate behaviour. I grew out of it at 17. Even thinking about getting back to it is just disgusting

 

[cow]

Youtube is full of divorced somali girls telling their stories, dude don't make Somali guys join that ugly trend.

Anyway there is nothing wrong for a 30 something year old playing video games as long as he also has a job and a life. everything in life is balance.

balance your religion with work, family, friends and hobbies.

 

[IPushFatKids]

I made sure to have this 'talk' with my wife before we got married.....do not expect me to wake up for fajr! To my surprise she said 'me neither!'. She prays sometimes. I only pray on Jummah.