@Angelina People take each other for granted when it comes to those of the same background. I've seen Desi, Arab and black women have the same complaints about this issue in their communities.
Yep, i've seen women of those backgrounds talk about the exact same thing on social media, so i'm fully aware that this isn't limited to Somalis. I think many men definitely view white women as some sort of prize therefore, getting with them means they need to tow the line along with the fact that cadaans tend to on average (not all the time), be a bit more helpful at home, along with being a lot more affectionate.
Also, an added benefit of interracial marriages people don't mention is that people are free to create their own ways of doing things rather than holding each other to cultural standards.