Somali men!

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I wonder just how deluded you would have to be to believe what men say on this issue. The fact of the matter is, a raped girl is even worse to them than a mere because the former comes with annoying psychological damage that can lead to her having a reduced libido (death sentence.) Of course, despite the abysmal sexual ethic of the Somali male, it is still inappropriate for them to say this outloud. For now anyways

She thought she was saying something of substance lol

 

[Samira]

Naa naga aamus balayo kugu dhacday

You can hide nothing from the Shaytaan so long as you breathe

 

[Nice]

I would need more details of the rape incident before making a call. If it was a point blank attack from a guy on a normal day, then i won't hold that against her.

If it was in a club or a houseparty and she claims she blacked out and some nigha slipped into her bed, i will definitely hold that against her.

If she says it was an ex who forced his way into her and she was too scared to say no, i will hold that too. I don't deal with cowards.

Come on now the second one is highly unlikely to be a virgin

 

[Awdalia Rising]

You can hide nothing from the Shaytaan so long as you breathe

someone needs to hide your food from you except for small portion 3 times a day nacalaaaa

 

[tima]

These responses are heartwarming. I'm not going to lie, I didn't expect this from you guys.

 

[pablo]

That’s something she couldn’t control So to me she’s technically a virgin and if she had the qualities I’m looking for then that wouldn’t be a deal breaker

 

[Basic]

But where did i say that?

I know you're just defending girl code but even you would have to agree they aren't the same. What's next, it should be ok as long as she didn't enjoy it?

Some nighas wouldn't even consider it rape but i still said it was.

My bad I misunderstood.

It’s not about girl code I just thought you said one is rape and the other isn’t.

 

[Mckenzie]

Come on now the second one is highly unlikely to be a virgin

I've seen enough houseparties to last a lifetime. Some girls will down bottles and seek attention all night, but they won't have sex. Whether they're actually virgin or just afraid of the publicity is besides the point. In that sort of environment it's just a matter of time before they come across the wrong nigha.

Hell even today on the news, a girl from South was thrown over a balcony by a crazy Mali at a houseparty when she rejected him. Would that have happened if she was asleep at home?

 

[Nice]

These responses are heartwarming. I'm not going to lie, I didn't expect this from you guys.

Same, may Allah elevate these brother’s places both in this world and the other one!

 

[Awdalia Rising]

Same, may Allah elevate these brother’s places both in this world and the other one!

And how can I elevate to your heart huuno

 

[Nice]

And how can I elevate to your heart huuno

There is no elevating to my heart, give it up awdal boy

 

[Awdalia Rising]

There is no elevating to my heart, give it up awdal boy

Hargeisa girl we are destined for a lovely night out in Jigjigayar district

 

[Samaalic Era]

Rape victims are broken ppl and is a serious burden to your marriage, honor and children.

You are better off marrying a divorcee with 5 children than a rape victim

 

[Mimir]

Would you guys turn down a sister who has been raped if her being a virgin was an important requirement for you? Even if she was a god fearing good woman, would you still say no?

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I still consider her a virgin since she didn't choose for that to happen to her.

So yes,I would still marry her

 

[tima]

Rape victims are broken ppl and is a serious burden to your marriage, honor and children.

You are better off marrying a divorcee with 5 children than a rape victim

@Samira Abaayo you have these Somali men all figured out.

 

[Helios]

@Samira Abaayo you have these Somali men all figured out.

Just bcs @Samaalic Era says something doesn't mean we agree with him

 

[Mimir]

Same, may Allah elevate these brother’s places both in this world and the other one!

Aawww thanks

May Allah elevate you too

 

[tima]

Just bcs @Samaalic Era says something doesn't mean we agree with him

Wa kaftan. I know most Somali men are living in 2020 unlike @Samaalic Era who's living in the 18th century.

 

[Exodus]

@Samaalic Era is spot on, even if it was worded harshly. Women would not voluntarily marry a cripple, and why is that? Because we don't want to deal with more hardships then necessary.

The same thinking applies for men with Rape victims, it's a horrible thing that they went through but I don't want to burden myself with it.

 

[Helios]

Wa kaftan. I know most Somali men are living in 2020 unlike @Samaalic Era who's living in the 18th century.

He is a sufi...