Somali men!

[Nice]

Would you guys turn down a sister who has been raped if her being a virgin was an important requirement for you? Even if she was a god fearing good woman, would you still say no?

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[HanadR6]

As long as she was not a hoe, she still a virgin to me

 

[416]

If she was a good woman and we were together and she trusted me enough to tell me her biggest secret, I’d love her even more

 

[BetterDaysAhead]

I KNOW SOME RAPE SURVIVORS AND EVEN THOUGH THEY STILL CARRY THE TRAUMA OF THE HORRIFIC EVENT THEY'RE STILL HUMANS THAT DESERVE COMPASSION AND LOVE! I WOULD NOT TURN DOWN A RAPE SURVIVOR THE ONES THAT I KNOW PERSONALLY ARE KIND AND LOVELY!

 

[Odkac WRLD]

I wouldn’t care too much
It wasn’t on her control



If she had consented to sex with another dude then it’s
And diff story

 

[Awdalia Rising]

I wouldn’t turn her down but I would be skeptical of her she might be scarred and I require much malab I don’t want her to feel bad

 

[Exodus]

I would say no because I don't want to deal with that.

 

[Veteran]

I wouldn't turn her down.

 

[Helios]

Would you guys turn down a sister who has been raped if her being a virgin was an important requirement for you? Even if she was a god fearing good woman, would you still say no?

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I wouldn't turn her down bcs she was forced into it. Although a lot of rape victims carry a lot of mental scars from that horrible event and I don't know if I could take care of her and address that as well

 

[NoSafety]

Of course

EDIT: nah. I'd prob want another wife

 

[Mckenzie]

I would need more details of the rape incident before making a call. If it was a point blank attack from a guy on a normal day, then i won't hold that against her.

If it was in a club or a houseparty and she claims she blacked out and some nigha slipped into her bed, i will definitely hold that against her.

If she says it was an ex who forced his way into her and she was too scared to say no, i will hold that too. I don't deal with cowards.

 

[Drifter]

No I wouldn’t she’s still pure and not to blame for what has befallen her. In my eyes she wouldn’t be no different than a virgin maiden.

 

[Xasusi]

Yes.

 

[Basic]

I would need more details of the rape incident before making a call. If it was a point blank attack from a guy on a normal day, then i won't hold that against her.

If it was in a club or a houseparty and she claims she blacked out and some nigha slipped into her bed, i will definitely hold that against her.

If she says it was an ex who forced his way into her and she was too scared to say no, i will hold that too. I don't deal with cowards.

Rape is rape.

 

[Mckenzie]

Rape is rape.

Doesn't hold the same weight if it was easily preventative. A girl will freely chill in a room with 5 marqaan nighas and then cry rape if one spikes her drink but i'm suppose to feel sorry for her?

 

[Basic]

Doesn't hold the same weight if it was easily preventative. A girl will freely chill in a room with 5 marqaan nighas and then cry rape if one spikes her drink but i'm suppose to feel sorry for her?

Still doesn’t mean she deserves to get raped??

 

[416]

Still doesn’t mean she deserves to get raped??

That’s not what he meant. He meant it’s not enough of a justification for him to marry her

 

[Mckenzie]

Still doesn’t mean she deserves to get raped??

But where did i say that?

I know you're just defending girl code but even you would have to agree they aren't the same. What's next, it should be ok as long as she didn't enjoy it?

Some nighas wouldn't even consider it rape but i still said it was.

 

[Samira]

I wonder just how deluded you would have to be to believe what men say on this issue. The fact of the matter is, a raped girl is even worse to them than a mere because the former comes with annoying psychological damage that can lead to her having a reduced libido (death sentence.) Of course, despite the abysmal sexual ethic of the Somali male, it is still inappropriate for them to say this outloud. For now anyways

 

[Awdalia Rising]

I wonder just how deluded you would have to be to believe what men say on this issue. The fact of the matter is, a raped girl is even worse to them than a mere because the former comes with annoying psychological damage that can lead to her having a reduced libido (death sentence.) Of course, despite the abysmal sexual ethic of the Somali male, it is still inappropriate for them to say this outloud. For now anyways

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