Again like I said this is due to having no father figure to stabilize these somali men, this might sound shocking to most of feminist Xalimoo's.
- More Likely to Be Depressed
- More Likely to Have Low Self-Esteem
- More Likely to Commit Suicide
Also not having a father figure has profound effect on boys that lasts into manhood. Boys need a father figure to learn how to be a man. Without having this influence in their lives, boys are at risk of growing into men who have problems with behavior, emotional stability, and relationships with both significant others and their own children. Yes you can say this is due to a lot of the mental health issue that goes un-diagnosed in our community. It's not that simple though, Somali men also have to face the negative portrayal the media has on them of being ugly swash buckling pirate. Not to mention the fact most Successful Somali Women want nothing to do with us and view marrying ajnabi men as a success and upgrade over Somali men. Couple this with the feeling of being abandoned and unwanted by your father this has to do a number on their mental health, social abilities, and esteem. It makes sense why Xalimoo's don't sympathize with Somali men because they too have the same feeling of abandonment so they lash out at these Somali men due the fear of these same men abandoning them.
Or maybe I am wrong and I have a victim mentality or looking for excuses for Somali men but this is just my observation and opinion
But yeah I agree with you on the autism part but there is more to it then to just make a sweeping generalization
Or observation.