whats wrong with marrying madow? aslong as he is muslim its normal
--Different Identities; Horn Africans have Eurasian ancestry and this creates a 'racial' and phenotypical distinction that can't be easily bridged -- the other shared similarities notwithstanding.
--Cultural incompatibility
--Some Madow men seem to have a fetish for Horn African women and that's certainly not a healthy basis for a relationship.
--Some ignorant Madows try to claim that Horn Africans are Arab rape babies, invaders or that they are a recent mix with Arabs, despite the fact that Arabs are not even old enough to qualify as a source population for the Eurasian component found in Horn African groups.
--Somalis supported other African 'Countries' against colonialism and Apartheid and a lot of Madows seem to have forgotten this -- especially in South Africa; this understandably creates a sense of betrayal and resentment.
--The families will not get along due to the negative perceptions they have of each other's ethnic backgrounds and cultures; and don't come for me people, but I think that Horn Africans have had a more culturally established disdain for Madows than the other way round; and I chalk this up to the fact that Madows became synonymous with slavery over the centuries.
--The children will inherit facial features that are the diametric opposite of the Horn African ideal, so the children will very likely be demoralised in Horn African cultural settings.
Madows have plenty of beautiful women to choose from so there's literally no need to jump ship; and this Borg-like insistence that Horn Africans should unquestionably identify as black and that it's racist if they're not attracted to Madows is creepy and gross.