Single women over 30, enter please

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  1. Tukraq

    Tukraq

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    I don’t even see men unmarried by 30 lol it’s not just women if your a guy an unmarried by 30(especially if Muslim) I’m looking at you weird, look around even for caddans once 25 rolls around they all have rings, blacks all have Baby mommas and daddies by a similar age, and even younger for Latinos, by 25 you should be married since the baby momma culture is haraam, being completely single until 30 whether male or female is rare and viewed negatively
     
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  2. Finesse

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    What about people that do istikharah and feel they cannot marry whoever was interested? Whether they are male or female?

    There are people who are not meant to get married early and that's fine.

    Nothing weird about it.

    Is it weird when someone cannot find a job? Cannot find a house? Or has other wordly struggles?

    Just say Alhamdulilah for your blessings and don't judge others for not having the same blessings.
     
  3. Libaaxseendheer

    Libaaxseendheer JIM PIM

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    Aduun waa labo, dumar iyo diin. Xoolo layesho iyo dawlad ladhiso waa dumar lagu dhaqdo daraadod. Diintana waa waxaad ilaah ula hortagi laheyd daarta dambe, ma garatey. Intaad nooshahayna nolosha ayey kuu fududeyn. Everything is those 2.

    Rasuulka waa taa u yiri"aduunka waa raaxo gaaban waxaana ugu raaxo badan waa dumar". Thats why xoolo loo kasbado, thats why cunto fiiican loo cuno for galmo macaan oo badan. If you eating qashin galmoda qashin ayey noqon. Thats why ciidan iyo hub loo yeesho ,in la dhowrto dumarka. Laakinse dumarka waa in halal aad ku guursatid waxaan kale maaha ujeedada
     
  4. NotMyL

    NotMyL "You are your best thing"

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    Lol waar ninkan and fat xaalimos maha kala heesto, listen inquistive maybe girls would listen to your advice more if you stopped relating everything to their weight.
     
  5. Libaaxseendheer

    Libaaxseendheer JIM PIM

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    @Finesse you are not providing solutions. You are just calaacaling sharafey
     
  6. Finesse

    Finesse

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    Are you a single woman over 30?

    If not, what is itching?
     
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  7. Caraweelo

    Caraweelo President of the Secular Republic of Somalia

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    You are still triggered and I'm still gonna live my life as I want and you can't do anything about it. Stay in denial and stay bitter while i'm living the best life I can.

    This is a public forum not your house, if you are triggered by women having different views than you then get off the internet and go live in a cave.

    p.s. I will mute your notification next time because you are not presenting any useful discussion.
     
  8. astorecalledkmart

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    For the sake of accuracy, my triggering is derived from the fact that you are an cadaan man with broken English. You always post offensive comments attacking Somalis, religion, and our culture, and then run away when you meet a Somali with a greater command of language than yourself. Gross generalizations that blindly insult millions or billions of people based on your own warped views isn't discourse, it's idiocy. People can upvote you all they want, but I see straight through your charade - you are neither Somali nor a woman.

    Trying to spin this as a "bad Somali man is against women" debate is beyond stupid given my pro-feminist writings above, but then again, being the racist, anti-Somali pretender you are, that's the only narrative that your very limited degree of neuronal networks could provide. If you didn't understand what I wrote because you read at below second-grade level, I sincerely apologize. I am glad that you are muting notifications from me - a roundabout admission of defeat is an admission of defeat nevertheless.

    Stay salty Sergei, Robert, or whatever your actual name is - until we meet again! I look forward to calling BS on whatever you have to post next.
     
  9. Caraweelo

    Caraweelo President of the Secular Republic of Somalia

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    It is not my problem that you live in your own bubble and not familiar with the existence of Somali Atheists and Somali Christians... surprise surprise WE exist :):2tjlv3e: You being in denial of the diverse groups of Somalis only show your narrow-minded way of thinking. You can't accuse everyone who disagree with you being a white.

    I'm a somali and english is not my language and this thread is not an exam hall to test our english, if you want to brag about how much english you know, open your own thread for that.

    This forum is for discussing about somalis, islam and culture and i will criticize any topic related to it as I want and if you get offended easily, it's your problem not my problem that you can't handle other somalis who have different views than you.

    p.s. I will still mute your notification because you are repeating same points (cadaan, triggered).
     
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  10. Formning1

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  11. astorecalledkmart

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    The issue isn't about being an atheist - everyone is entitled to their opinions and I could care less about your personal beliefs. The issue is the insulting manner in which you speak, which is in keeping with the sort of language used by racist pretenders who seek to make Somalis feel ashamed of being Somali. Other people state beliefs that I don't agree with, but I stay quiet because they are respectful. You on the other hand downvote and insult anyone with a pro-Somali or pro-religion message (now that's not very open-minded of you is it?) - if you're polite, then I would be in the wrong to post a negative rebuttal about you. If you're going to insult innocent people who've done nothing to you, then expect to get checked.

    P.S. The other issue is the fact that you are not Somali and are in fact an cadaan man...
     
  12. SilverL

    SilverL Unprofessional Therapist

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    Thank you. I would hate to have a baby that age because I’m not trying to raise kids for the rest of my life lol let alone triplets
     
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  13. Gambar

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    Miskeen, iska daa he uses a CPAP machine.
     
  14. Gambar

    Gambar

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    Who the hell wants to chase a toddler at 52?

    Gabdho have kids young if you can, you’ll have all the energy in the world and by the time they’re adults you won’t be needing elder care. :faysalwtf:
     
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  15. Yoo

    Yoo Eel eh?

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    Your 18-19...
     
  16. Abdalla

    Abdalla Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis Prof.Dr.Eng. VIP

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    If you're reading this and you worry about marriage, pray to Allah that he gives you a righteous spouse. I don't know of a dua for marriage, but perhaps make the same dua as prophet Zakaria

    وَزَكَرِيَّا إِذْ نَادَىٰ رَبَّهُ رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ

    And (remember) Zakariya (Zachariah), when he cried to his Lord: "O My Lord! Leave me not single (childless), though You are the Best of the inheritors."

    Address your sorrow and worries only to Allah
     
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  17. Halimo-2018

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    Turned 30 in may. Alxamdulilah
     
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  18. Yoo

    Yoo Eel eh?

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    Sure buddy:ftw9nwa:
     
  19. Mehmet

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    30 to 35 got serious kibir issues and only a small few will find a life partner cause of it
     
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  20. Halimo-2018

    Halimo-2018

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    Why?
     
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