Single women over 30, enter please

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  1. astorecalledkmart

    astorecalledkmart

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    Speaking for myself, I would definitely prefer marrying a 30-35 year old girl with similar educational attainment as myself rather than an 18-22 year old with no real sense of money or responsibility.

    I don't think any women are actively avoiding marriage until their 30s lol. The pool of educated (i.e., beyond a bachelor's degree), religious, financially stable Somali men from good families who don't have criminal records and are not related to someone with a criminal record is actually very small. Anecdotally, this is phenomenon seems to span different races it seems as I have several non-Somali female colleagues at work who are married to guys who are total deadbeats.

    It's a blessed time to be a successful Somali man, but a rough time to be a successful Somali woman. I think the solution is that there should be a Somali marriage bureau. Let educated Somali women meet educated Somali men, and let those who wanna get married young get married to each other.

    The couple in their 30s will InshaAllah produce super children who may one day save the Somali race, while the teenaged couple will increase the population: win-win.
     
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  2. Nilotufian

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    Not 30+ but who actually listens what men gotta say :ftw9nwa:

    Ps Hooyo’s and habaryals need fuck off with the “when will you marry?” question like broken record on goddddd.
     
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  3. Caraweelo

    Caraweelo President of the Secular Republic of Somalia

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    I'm not planning to get married to a somali or any other misogynist male. I respect myself and I will not give away my freedom for an exhausting married life. I will continue dating and have the most fun I can. I will continue to work and achieve financial stability and I'm planning to adopt children and give them amazing life.
     
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  4. astorecalledkmart

    astorecalledkmart

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    Literally no one:

    Caraweelo: i'M nOt pLAnNinG tO gEt mArrIed to A sOmAli oR aNy otHeR miSOgynISt mALe

    P.S. How long have you actually been an old white guy trying to infiltrate a Somali website using a semi-astute method of triggering generalizations and broken pseudo-English?
     
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  5. IftiinOfLife

    IftiinOfLife Raw Hard Truth

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    Most 30-35 year old somali women are poor waiting for a somali man to save them financially. They are in student loan debt, have condominium debt, car lease debt, credit card debt, vacation debt and they socially drink. They are also the type to marry idris elba and not answer if hes muslim or not.

    I think we need to teach somali guys how to be financially successful , as opposed to just surviving jail to save such women.

    My advice to the somali girls 30-35? fuck you, your generation never helped mine, all you guys did was gossip, scam the community, watch america's next top model, do shitty open spoken word poetry, hoe around, have jamaican kids, and do drugs, move back in with hoyo and abo, hide your tattoos with wrist bands, and pretend to be virgins!


    To the good ones, I hope you find a man one day, keep your head up, i'm rooting for you.
     
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  6. Vanessa

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    F7E3518B-84E4-40A4-BF6C-52B5913DFA99.jpeg
     
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  7. Gibiin-Udug

    Gibiin-Udug Boqoradda Dal-udug Staff Member Moderator

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    @Finesse I was at a wedding on Saturday, the bride was 32 and the groom was 26 this was both of their first marriages. Please don't give any thought to what these neck bearded, dragon breath losers have to say. These dusty men don't live in the real world, they talk to their pillows, pretending it's a woman. How can we possibly take them seriously? Especially the fat ass who's obsessed with women's weight. Rumor has it he looks like Dahir Calasow who gained 200 lbs.
     
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  8. SilverL

    SilverL Unprofessional Therapist

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    I was trying to get married at 20 but my parents weren’t for it. I actually wish I did though cause I get low key jealous when I see someone my age who is already a mom :browtf: the single life sucks!! I want kids :frdfvsb:
     
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  9. Vanessa

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    Inshallah one day you will be a mother e-hugs :it0tdo8:
     
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  10. Gibiin-Udug

    Gibiin-Udug Boqoradda Dal-udug Staff Member Moderator

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    May Allah swt give you the amount of kids you desire. Ameen.
     
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  11. Vanessa

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    Fat guys always want a slim girl
     
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  12. Mehmet

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    More like wasting time until their window to have some is near the ending
     
  13. Mehmet

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    One of two types of xalimos to avoid
     
  14. Lostbox

    Lostbox 「Immortal Sage」

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    They end up in the ghetto, just away and pushed further and further out as they priced out from only the good opportunities and nice neighborhoods. You guys know how bad social mobility is these days in the first world especially for people at the bottom. We aren't affected by this. I barely know any single mother but the one I do were unluck.

    I don't care.
     
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  15. halwa

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    My cousin recently got married at the age of 32 and now she’s expecting her first child, her other sisters also got married this year and they’re in their 30s too. You get what’s coming at you because it is what’s written for you. It’s calaf. Anyone who listens and takes advice from Sspot faraxs have lost the plot. Let them just rant.
     
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  16. IstarZ

    IstarZ Be a mountain or lean on one

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    All the weddings I’ve attended in 2019 were of couples in their late 20s and early 30s. A mix of family members and family friends. These guys are not in touch with reality or they are just that delusional.
     
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  17. halwa

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    Exactly! Everything has a process it goes through. They think getting married happens overnight. :ftw9nwa:
     
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  18. nomand

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    actually a lot of scholars say that khadija was 28 and not 40 when she married the prophet s.a.w
     
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  19. Timo Jareer and proud

    Timo Jareer and proud

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    It's Sunnah to marry young, but, i don't care if you marry old.
     
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  20. Finesse

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    It's never too late and inshallah you will get many lovely children.


    Read this, a woman who is 52 finally gave birth to TRIPLETS, after years of trying to conceive.

    Allah provides what he wishes to who he wishes.


     
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