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This, how can a country where most people live in the baadiyo and don't even deal with money have breadwinners let alone female breadwinners lmfao
Social studies students could tell you, it is not just Somalis, but all communities, which had been in a civil unrest. A Sudani lady was reflecting on the same issue in an article recently. For example, when men, with professions, left the country to work in the Khalij in the 70s & 80s, life was grand fro the family, yet as the civil war unfolded, with men fighting, women had to step in to make up for the loss of earning. In principle, in all cultures, women do twice, if not thrice, of what a man could do, more so for the Somali woman. Post civil war, in the case of Somali professional men, not boys, they could not join the labour market in the West, for they lack the requisite skills, and proficiency, and could not accept the reality of their misfortunes, loss of stature, and could not accept menial jobs outside of driving cabs, and lorries, only by the smart ones, I might add. Here is a good example: a mate shared a side-by-side photo, I think of the front page of Newsweek, at the outbreak of the civil war, of a Somali mother selling tea in front of the former National Bank, and a gentleman, in a bespoke suit, seated in what was once a posh armchair, by the front door of the Bank, with his hands folded. The lady, not the type, who would be out in the hot sun, let alone peddle on the street under normal circumstances, adapted doing what she had to do to feed her family whereas the gentleman, who happens to have been a Manager at the Bank, could neither adjust nor adapt, and was there just awaiting normalcy to return. He could have been a hawker in the market to make ends meet, or a trader on a stall, but no, he could not adapt. The same applies to many Somali former professionals in the West, who have been reduced to sitting at cafes discussing pseudo politics all day whilst the wives are hustling, and bustling.Why are somali women becoming breadwinners in the households nowadays? Not only in the west but also back home. My abo pays the bills but I feel like I've heard most somalis say their hooyo runs the house. I even found statistics that said post civil war somali women are becoming the main providers in the householdI would post the evidence but it's so ceeb I dont even wanna shame yall like thatYou don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
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Amongst others, there are two factors contributing to the success of women:
a) Adaptability traits to their new reality. Further, they possess the requisite hard work ethos of doing that which must be done to survive, and unlike men, are not as prideful, naturally; home-based businesses, child care, health home care etc. are a few to name.
b) Getting educated / trained to join, if compete in the labour market; this is more so found in younger people, and quite evident at colleges / universities, and in Corporate America.
True, men are lagging behind at the moment, yet are catching on, as is already evident in younger generation, mostly. Once they had acquired requisite skills, they shall rejoin and I would argue, it is a temporary condition.
The same is true in other immigrant communities in the US viz. Hmong, a traditional community culturally very close to the Somalis.
Odious Delirium
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You won't find old money somali in the west and in general if you ain't old money yourself you ain't getting old money.
Isn't that right @Angelina
The question is why do women marry broke men in the first place, avoid and grow 
, from a farax lool
, from a farax lool
No majority employed workers in Somalia are male, you can check the Somali Integrated Household Budget survey report which is accurate and had a huge number of participants.
you're delusional stop rejecting actual statistics and lets see yours
cause we deal with the consequences of you men
Odious Delirium
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I got a simple solution to your problem
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you're acting like you're telling me something new why would I date a broke faarax every faarax I ever spoke to sent bread I've always been able to find the 1% that is employedI got a simple solution to your problem
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Old money folks hang about with old money folks. Your best bet is to try and infiltrate their spaces.
iskufilann
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Why are you acting like you men don't talk about women. "Women this, Women that".
if you haven't seen, i've posted latest stats above.
only 15% of Somali women are employed or seeking employment.
iskufilann
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I'm not going to lie but some have the mentality " I can change him "The question is why do women marry broke men in the first place, avoid and grow
as if that's going to change his amount in the bank account
iskufilann
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15% only?? There has to be more for sure. I refuse to believe that
YOUR LIFE MUST BE TRULY PATHETIC
to start a gender war on your first day on sspot do you not have something better to do .
Forums are for discussion about life how about you introduce yourself to us first but no you want to fart in the elevator and walk off and let the new occupants suffer .
to start a gender war on your first day on sspot do you not have something better to do .
Forums are for discussion about life how about you introduce yourself to us first but no you want to fart in the elevator and walk off and let the new occupants suffer .
Unattractive women marry rich all the time.
Look at the wives of billionaires. None of them look good to me tbh, although theyโre all slim and elegant.
Itโs proximity, being of the same class, families knowing each other or simply going to the same grad schools as them.
As a woman if you really want to date rich, of course take the time to try and look put together, get in shape ( rich men prefer slim women) and get yourself to places that you know theyโll be. If youโre from a working class background, you need to be strategic and invest yourself and find ways to go to where the rich frequent. That will require that you actually invest in going to certain unis, certain companies ect. Donโt let these redpillers fool you. You canโt be on the estate and a rich man chooses you despite being gorgeous. How will they notice you?
Men donโt care about your educational achievements as much but Investing in that will put you In the same room. As a poorer woman you donโt have the luxury of not educating yourself. Girls from rich families can simply go to family functions, being in their neighborhood, being introduced by friends ect. They are part of that world already.
that probably doesn't include entrepreneurial women
the bums are getting triggered
i already introduced myself i said "welcome me" keep up sweetiecause a lot of somali parents force their kids to marry somali. so they don't have much optionThe question is why do women marry broke men in the first place, avoid and grow
